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98     ChaPter 5  Nonverbal Messages






                            OK sign                           Thumbs up                             Thumbs down
                            France: you're a zero; Japan:     Australia: up yours; Germany: the     Most countries:
                            please give me coins; Brazil: an   number one; Japan: the number five;   something is wrong
                            obscene gesture; Mediterranean    Saudi Arabia: I'm winning; Ghana: an   or bad
                            countries: an obscene gesture     insult; Malaysia: the thumb is used to
                                                              point rather than the index finger










                                           Thumb and forefinger                  Open palm
                                           Most countries: money;                Greece: an insult dating to ancient
                                           France: something is perfect;         times; West Africa: “You have five
                                           Mediterranean: a vulgar gesture       fathers,” an insult akin to calling
                                                                                 someone a bastard


                                            FIgure 5.1
                                            some cultural Meanings of gestures
                                            Cultural differences in the meanings of nonverbal gestures are often significant. The over-the-head clasped
                                            hands that signify victory to an American may signify friendship to a Russian. To a North American, holding up
                                            two fingers to make a V signifies victory or peace. To certain South Americans, however, it is an obscene gesture
                                            that corresponds to an extended middle finger in the United States. This figure highlights some additional
                                            nonverbal differences. Can you identify others?


                                               Illustrators enhance (literally “illustrate”) the verbal messages they accompany. For
                                            example, when referring to something to the left, you might gesture toward the left. Most
                                            often you illustrate with your hands, but you can also illustrate with head and general body
                                            movements. You might, for example, turn your head or your entire body toward the left. You
                                            might also use illustrators to communicate the shape or size of objects you’re talking about.
                                            Recent research points to an interesting advantage of illustrators—namely, that they increase
                                            your ability to remember. In this research people who illustrated their verbal messages with
                                            gestures remembered 20 percent more than those who didn’t gesture (Goldin-Meadow,
                                            Nusbaum, Kelly, & Wagner, 2001).
                                               Affect displays are movements of the face (smiling or frowning, for example) but also of
                                            the hands and general body (body tenseness or relaxed posture, for example) that communi-
                                            cate emotional meaning. You use affect displays to accompany and reinforce your verbal
                                            messages and also as substitutes for words. For example, you might smile while saying how
                                            happy you are to see your friend, or you might simply smile. (Affect displays, being primarily
                                            centered in the facial area, are covered in more detail in the next section.)
                                               Regulators are behaviors that monitor, control, coordinate, or maintain the speech of
                                            another individual. When you nod your head, for example, you tell the speaker to keep on
                                            speaking; when you lean forward and open your mouth, you tell the speaker that you would
                                            like to say something.
                                               Adaptors are gestures that satisfy some personal need, such as scratching to relieve an
                                            itch or moving your hair out of your eyes. Self-adaptors are self-touching movements
                                            (e.g., rubbing your nose). Alter-adaptors are movements directed at the person with whom
                                            you’re speaking: for example, removing lint from a person’s jacket or straightening his or her tie,
                                            or folding your arms in front of you to keep others at a comfortable distance. Object-adaptors
                                            are gestures focused on objects (e.g., doodling on or shredding a Styrofoam coffee cup.)
                                            Table 5.3 summarizes these five types of body movements.
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