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TOPUCU Standard Workbook                                                                                                                                                                                                      Lesson 6: Part 1





      be longer. But one thing is for sure; you’ll             you don’t want to do, if you really want to                            spent doing a meaningless, nonproductive                 change is painful, but at the end comes
      eventually get to that last hour and breathe             become the person you want to become.                                  activity. Remember, this program is about                the reward. The sacrifice is worth it.
      that last breath. To give you a further                  You have to be the one in your group that                              transformation. You can’t be transformed
      understanding of the value of time, let’s look           does things differently. You have to break                             by giving one-sixth of your life away to                 All of us have time that we waste. You will
      at it this way. Let’s say you’ve struggled your          the mold. When your friend says let’s mess                             activities that don’t produce growth.                    learn in Part 2 of this lesson that having
                                                                                                                                                                                               some amusement time is fine, but you need


             "If you want to make good use of your time, you've got to know what's most                                                                    "The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule,
                         important and then give it all you've got." — Lee Iacocca                                                                           but to schedule your priorities." — Stephen Covey


      entire life financially and suddenly you win             around or hang out, you have to say, no,                                                "Most of us spend too much time on what is urgent and not
      the lottery. Wow, you’re a millionaire, just             I’ve got something better to do. I’m going                                                  enough time on what is important." — Stephen Covey
      like that! Then the next day as you’re on                to do something constructive. I’m going to
      your way to deposit that check, your heart               do something that will lead to the positive
      stops and you die right then and there. All              change I want to see in my life.                                       This is a great place to remind you of the               to discipline yourself to limit that idle time.
      that money, and you never get the time to                                                                                       lesson on pain. Is it going to be painful                You will also be taught some secrets and
      spend a single dollar of it. You can’t get time          So let’s take a look at this challenge from                            transforming the habit of how you spend                  tools that champions use to take advantage
      back. There is story after story of millionaires         a different angle. Idle time is usually set                            your time into doing things you don’t want               of every minute of the day and how they
      who tried to buy more time. They would                   in opposition to hard work. And as we                                  to do? Yes, it is. Hopefully, by now this                get themselves to do what they don’t want
      have given up their fortunes for more hours.             discussed in earlier lessons, most people                              program has taught you that almost all                   to do so that they can become what they
      But no matter how hard they tried the                    have set their minds to accept the easy route                                                                                   want to become.
      clock still ran out. By now, you’re probably             because it feels good; it’s pleasurable. When
      thinking, “Geez, what an uplifting message.”             you think of pleasure, one of the words that
      Believe it or not, the goal of this message              might come to mind is “amusement.” Now, if                             NOTES:
      is not to depress you, but to emphasize the              we break down this word into pieces there is
      importance of time. Once it’s gone, you                  very powerful symbolism about the dangers
      can’t get it back.                                       of idle time. An Internet search for the word
                                                              “muse” will reveal numerous definitions, but
      In an earlier lesson we spoke about Dr.                  several of them point to the word “think.”
      Benjamin Carson. Because of the decisions                You will also find that if you do a search for
      of his mother and his own choices, he                    the suffix “ment” you’ll see that it means
      decided to turn off the television and started          “action.” Lastly, an examination of “a” as a
      reading. As a result he gave more value to               prefix will reveal a number of definitions
      his time. It was time invested, rather than              that are synonymous with another prefix:
      time wasted. This transformation from idle              “un.” Simply put, “amusement” is the
      time to constructive time transformed his life          “action of unthinking.”
      and enabled him to become one of the most
      well known surgeons in the world.                        Now this is not to say that you can’t have
                                                               time for amusement; but rather that you
      So here’s the challenge. We all struggle                 have to plan time for amusement and do
      with spending our hours doing unfruitful,                it in reasonable moderation. You can’t just
      idle things. We all want pleasure and self-              hang out 4 or 5 nights a week. You can’t
      gratification. You’re now in lesson six and              watch television for four hours every day.
      from the previous lessons you’ve learned that            Think about it: 4 hours a day is 28 hours
      this is unacceptable. You must do the things             a week or one sixth of your entire life




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