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When the advert reminds you of the idea to generate more cash, take action.
And when you’re presented with that difficult wealthy individual, don’t think “just my luck,
another impossible to please, never spends a penny customer”. Instead, appreciate the
opportunity: “I might just be able to turn them around with my charm, who knows? It’s worth a
try”.

So, be alert to the infinite number of ways vibration will start aligning with your desire, once you
get on track mentally. Value the ideas and opportunities that come your way, be grateful for
them and act on them.
Appreciation doesn’t stop once your vibration of appreciation has been launched.
Appreciation is both your intention and your initial action as you vigorously launch your vibration
of appreciation.
Appreciating you

The more you appreciate those you love, the more you will find to appreciate. Practice
appreciating them when all is going well, so you will have a good stock of things to appreciate
that will help you through the rough times. Appreciation is not a guarantee of there being no
rough times, but it does allow us to get through them a little more easily, with less hurt or
damage, often emerging on the other side with a stronger, richer relationship. We can all be
experts at amplifying the negative, its only when we use that power to amplify the positive that
we can turn situations around.
It’s important to maintain a balance of appreciating ourselves and the ones we love. Value our
own position, boundaries and desires, and at the same time value our loved one’s positions,
boundaries and desires.
Appreciation shouldn’t turn you into a “Yes dear, whatever you say” robot. It doesn’t mean you
always agree with them. Balanced appreciation of yourself and the other person means that in
any given circumstance, you take into careful consideration both your partners and your own
valuable self, desires and preferences. Neither person should be short changed.

Appreciation puts you in charge of your feelings
Sometimes in a relationship, you feel like a victim of love, always at the mercy of your partner’s
moods or emotions. If he’s nice, you feel good; if she’s nasty, you feel bad. When this happens,
you are emotionally reactive to your partner, instead of maintaining your personal emotional
integrity. Appreciation can help you keep your good feelings going regardless of your partners
current emotional state.
If your partner is in a bad mood for example, simply let him go through it. Keep on an emotional
even keel by reminding yourself of all that you value about him, about the relationship and
about yourself. Switch your focus to whatever does make you feel good and appreciate that
good feeling so as to strengthen and renew your own vibration of appreciation. Since you’re
not feeding your partners bad mood vibrationally by feeling bad because of it, his bad mood
vibration can dissipate more readily.
As tempting as it may be to moan and groan and feel sorry for yourself when he/she is being less
than his wonderful self, it is vibrational suicide. Your self pitying complaining will feed his mood
and the vibration generated will be all about negativity, inevitably attracting more negative re-
sults. Diffuse the power of his/her negative vibration by ignoring it, and maintaining your own
appreciative stance.