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                                                                             Amanda Tatom in her own words
                                                                              on the search for what’s next

                                                                          I left my job in daytime TV last August without a plan
                                                                          and without another job lined up. It was a leap of
                                                                          faith, but I knew one thing for sure: This change would
                                                                          give me precious time with my girls as they started
                                                                          a new school year. Then I would figure out the rest.
                                                                              Five months later I am still figuring it out. But
                                                                           aren’t we all?
                                                                             (Please say yes. If you in fact do have it all fig-
                                                                          ured out, don’t tell me yet. I need to feel like I’m not
                                                                          alone in this.)
                                                                            Gradually the job part is taking direction with
                                                                                 a variety of freelance work. I have on-
                                                                                    going  projects  in  fashion,  TV,  radio,
                                                                                      print and brand ambassadorship.
                                                                                       I continue to share pretty openly
                                                                                        on my blog and social media
                                                                                        about everything from morning
                                                                                        carpool runs to dating again to
                                                                                        faith to hitting a holiday funk. I
                                                                                         try not to hold back. The feel-
                                                                                          ings and emotions connect us,
                                                                                          and talking about them is not a
                                                                                          problem for me.

                                                                                          Epiphanies Happen
                                                                                           That leads me to the com-
                                                                                           mon thread that runs through
                                                                                           many of my Facebook and
                                                                                           Instagram posts along with
                                                                                           most interviews or talks I
                                                                                           have given and every prayer
                                                                                            I send up. Purpose. We are  PHOTOGRAPHY BY TYLER SCHMITT/THE MILL PHOTOGRAPHY STUDIO. APPAREL COURTESY OF LEAGUE OF REBELS (THIS PAGE) AND ESTILO BOUTIQUE.
                                                                                            all searching for it. We all
                                                                                             want it. But how the heck
                                                                                             do we find it?
                                                                                                I mean, I’m 44 for good-
                                                                                             ness sake. Shouldn’t I be well
                                                                                            aware and locked into this
                                                                                           purpose thing? I’m a recover-
                                                                                           ing type A control freak, so not
                                                                                           having an official purpose really
                                                                                          puts a bee in my bonnet. Sticks
                                                                                          in my craw. Funny enough,
                                                                                          therein is where I found my true
                                                                                         purpose.  Somewhere between
                                                                                        my bonnet and my craw, spinning
                                                                                       all over the place, I could see it evolv-
                                                                                      ing and taking shape.
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