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THE POWER OF TAKING THE PLUNGE


               the  visual  playback  bouncing  up  and  down
               because of my laughing.

               Randi didn't find anything humorous about that
               event. She literally froze on stage. To this day,
               she has no desire to ever do public speaking.
               Although anyone can learn to get over that fear,
               she like many has chosen to hang onto it. What
               was really funny to me was the fact that at her

               speaking debut that evening, her two front baby
               teeth were missing. It would have been much
               easier to say the word "Honest" than it would
               "Cheerful." The bottom line is that she learned
               that fear, and daddy didn't help matters.

               The developmental stages and the fears a child
               learns as he or she develops are very interesting.

               At around eight to ten months, babies begin to
               understand  ‘object  permanence.’  Before  this
               point,  if  something  is  in  their  awareness  it
               exists. When it is removed from their awareness
               it ceases to exist. But after this stage, the idea
               that something is still in existence but just not
               there at that moment occurs. This leads to other

               trains of thought, like, ‘Where has daddy gone?





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