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RANDY PERDUE


               When will  he be back?’ This is connected to
               separation anxiety.

               I remember traveling from San Antonio, Texas
               to  Quantico,  Virginia  to  attend  six  weeks  of
               leadership training. I had never been away from
               my  youngest,  Randi,  for  more  than  ten  to
               twelve hours since her birth. She was about two
               years of age at the time. When I returned to San

               Antonio,  she  and  her  mother,  Cathy,  were
               awaiting my arrival at the airport. When Cathy
               pointed  me  out  to  her  and  said,  "There's
               daddy!", the look on my little girl's face was a
               look  that  I'll  never  forget.  There  were  a  few
               seconds that I was unrecognizable to her. As
               her mom was holding her, I reached for her,
               and once she was in my embrace, she began to
               rub my face with her little hand as she stared

               into my eyes.  She latched on to me as though
               she would never let go. Our relationship was
               forever changed after that trip.

               One of the other key developmental stages for
               children  occurs  with  the  development  of  the
               imagination. Every parent notices a difference
               in the play of their child if they pay attention.




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