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GENERAL INTEREST             SOCIAL COMMENTARY




                                                                                   Rabbi Chaim Navon












                            The Real Joy of Purim










              n a July day in 1518, Mrs. Trof-  A few years ago, Israeli high school   Still, when we drink and behave in
              fea went out into the streets of   yeshiva students uploaded an offen-  moderation, this custom has taste and
      OStrasbourg and began to dance.       sive video as a promo for the upcom-  meaning, within the boundaries of
       She danced for six days straight. In   ing Purim celebrations. Their Principal   Purim.
       those six days, 34 people contracted her   responded appropriately and canceled
       ‘fever’ and joined the ongoing dance.   the celebrations. My wife asked me if,   Sadly, the revelry of Adar in Israeli
       Within a month, there were hundreds   in my opinion, the punishment was not   yeshiva high schools often crosses the
       of dancers on the streets of the country   excessive. I told her I didn’t think it was   boundaries of halacha and of respect-
       who had been dancing for days on end.   excessive at all. On the contrary. In my   fulness, and it is difficult to find any
       To this day, no full explanation has been   opinion, all the revelry of Adar should   educational value in such festivities.
       found for that dance fever. Some of the   be cancelled in the yeshivas, even in   Tremendous effort and enormous
       dancers writhed in pain and begged   institutions where the students know   resources are wasted on grandiose cel-
       for mercy but could not stop dancing.   better than to publicize vulgar videos.  ebrations, which are sometimes replete
       Some explain the incident as an out-  Yes, it is accepted in our tradition that   with vanity and insults. Some teachers
       break of mass hysteria. Many died from   on one day a year, for a few hours, the   are hesitant to intervene, for fear they
       heart attacks, strokes or exhaustion.                                     will just be ridiculed.
                                            restraints are lifted a little. But even
       A less fatal case occurred in Tanzania   then it’s not good to exaggerate. The   The joy of youth is good and healthy.
       in 1962. Three girls started laughing at   Gemara tells of a Sage who drank too   But it is good and healthy in Adar in the
       school and could not stop. Most of the   much, and in his drunkenness, killed   same framework and in the same con-
       boarding school students were infected   another Sage (then prayed for him and   text in which it is good in Cheshvan or
       with the raging laughter. The princi-  brought him back to life). The Nimukei   Iyar. This is how the Rambam described
       pal was forced to close the school and   Yosef writes that a person can drink on   the priorities of Purim: “It is better for
       send the students home. The result was   Purim, but “should not go crazy in his   a person to increase the gifts for the
       that the residents of the nearby villages   drunkenness and be drawn to jest and   poor than to add to his meal and send
       were also infected with the laughter   frivolity.”                        mishloach manot, for there is no greater
       epidemic. 14 schools in the area were   Despite this, many are very stringent   and more glorious joy than to gladden
       closed for extended periods, and mass   about drunkenly letting go on Purim.   the hearts of the poor, orphaned, wid-
       laughter ceased only after a year and a   This custom has been dressed in a   owed and converts.” This is the joy the
       half. When the three original laughers   cover of ideology. As if drunkenness   Rambam believed in: caring for others
       were asked what was so funny to begin   and letting loose reveal one’s inner holi-  and actively demonstrating responsibil-
       with, they were unable to answer.                                         ity for the community.
                                            ness. This is like saying we need to peel
       Dancing and laughter are not always   away a person’s skin to reveal his inner
       joyous activities. Sometimes they    organs. Just as the skin is part of the
       are just a forced expression of social   body, not just a shell, self-control and
       dynamics. It is imperative to remem-  restraint are intrinsic parts of ourselves.
       ber this, especially during the month   When we abandon self-control, we are   Rabbi Chaim Navon is a renowned author
       of Adar.                             less human, not more.                and educator.





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