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Arina Beidik


                                                                                                                  KFC Oblaka
                                                                                                                  Town of Engels

                                                                                                                     This Is My Cup of Tea!


                                                                                                                     I have always had a desire to help those who need that. But
                                                                                                                  I could not find THE fund where I would have felt comfortable
                                                                                                                  and my activities would have brought tangible results.
                                                                                                                     I have a close friend who stayed in an orphanage fortunately
                                                                                                                  not for a long time. We discussed that period of her life: she was
                                                                                                                  sharing the child’s fears of hers and the feeling of loneliness which
                                                                                                                  she had experienced then. And I was thinking that I  could be
                                                                                                                  helping the guys, lonely teenagers in orphanages. And only when
                                                                                                                  I started working in KFC and found myself in the team of volun-
                                                                                                                  teers who had been helping the guys from orphanages, I under-
                                                                                                                  stood that this was exactly the format of charity that I wanted to
                                                                                                                  deal with, that ‘it was my cup of tea’.
                                                                                                                     The first few visits to the kids were very embarrassing for me.
                                                                                                                  These kids, what are they like? How do they communicate? How
                                                                                                                  do they behave? How shall I behave, and how shall I talk? I was
                                                                                                                  asking myself millions of questions. Later on, I got to know them
                                                                                                                  closer and I  have understood  what an inexpressible feeling it
                                                                                                                  is when the kids remember you, wait for your and are glad to
                                                                                                                  see you, running to greet you! They cannot wait to communi-
                                                                                                                  cate, telling something and sharing their emotions with a person
                                                                                                                  whom they trust. We are learning together, each of us mastering
                                                                                                                  the skills that are unfamiliar particularly to him/her.
                                                                                                                     I am glad that of all the volunteering formats I have managed
                                                                                                                  to find the one that is to my liking and the one where I am being
                                                                                                                  useful.
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