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Continued from  page  14             works!  If  you  wake  up  in  the   us was, at one time, a little infant.
                                              morning  with  gratitude  on  your
         is my sense of gratitude. I begin    mind,  it's  pretty  difficult,  in  fact
         to take the people in my life for    almost  impossible,  to  feel  any-   Now, roll forward the clock one
         granted, and the love that I of-     thing but peace.                     hundred years. See the same per-
         ten feel is replaced with resent-                                         son  as  a  very  old  person  who  is
         ment and frustration.                 Imagine the People in Your Life     about to die. Look at their worn-
                                              as  Tiny  Infants  and  as  One-     out  eyes  and  their  soft  smile,
         What this exercise reminds me        Hundred-Year-Old  Adults  I          which  suggests  a  bit  of  wisdom
         to do is to focus on the good in     learned  this  technique  almost     and  the  admission  of  mistakes
         my life. Invariably as I think of    twenty  years  ago.  It  has  proven   made. Know that each of us will
         one person to feel gratitude for,    to  be  extremely  successful  for   be one hundred years old, alive or
         the  image  of  another  person      releasing feelings of irritation to-  dead, before too many decades go
         pops into my head, then anoth-       ward other people.                   by.
         er and another. Pretty soon I'm
         thinking  of  other  things  to  be   Think of someone who truly irri-    You can play with this technique
         grateful  for  -  my  health,  my    tates  you,  who  makes  you  feel   and  alter  it  in  many  ways.  It  al-
         children,  my  home,  my  career,    angry. Now, close your eyes and      most  always  provides  the  user
         the  readers  of  my  books,  my     try  to  imagine  this  person  as  a   with  some  needed  perspective
         freedom, and on and on it goes.      tiny  infant.  See  their  tiny  little   and compassion. If our goal is to
                                              features  and  their  innocent  little   become  more  peaceful  and  lov-
         It may seem like an awfully sim-     eyes. Know that babies can't help    ing,  we  certainly  don't  want  to
         ple  suggestion,  but  it  really    but  make  mistakes  and  each  of   harbor negativity toward others.





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