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Contributing Author: KATHY MELA

Who is going to care for the care givers? Kathy
has dedicated her life as a nurse practitioner
helping heal illness in the body. Now she is on a
mission to heal emptiness in the heart Kathy

My story is one of a fun, energetic lieve. For me, I now know it’s not Why? Because I NOW know I am
loving person who, as a child, devel- true. I certainly am worthy and I am worthy. I love and accept me as me.
oped a perspective of unworthiness loved. And, even more important to me, is
“Do it! Start and rejection through several child- As a young adult I went into a mar- my mess—be open and vulnerable
that I get the opportunity to share
hood experiences.
You Can Fire Your Coach
“dancing” and Yep! That’s right! Chances are you’re pay- your answer will be best for you. And I’ve recently realized how much I acceptance and worth. I thought lieve in my message.
riage because I was looking for to your judgment—because I be-
“dating!” You ing good money for your coach. If you another secret…you already have all the was negatively impacted by the I would find it in a man who had Everyone matters
sense after some time that it’s not an answers. With a coach’s support, you will
“teasing” that took place in my experienced similar situations as
are bound to ideal match, and you can say with fideli- come to witness and understand that. home. In sharing this, I am not in- a child. His experiences seemed Everyone is worthy
ty that you are giving it your all, fire that It’s a beautiful thing. Be ready to put in
tending to place blame on any of “worse” to me and I thought I could Everyone wants to know they mat-
find a coach coach. There are plenty of coaches in the the work. my family members or to choose help him, “fix” him. ter, are loved and have a purpose
So what would I tell someone who’s
sea!
Love is the answer
into a victim mentality. As children,
who becomes a Finding Your Own Way looking to hire a coach? we have experiences and then we When we separated and later di- Thoughts Become Things
place a “meaning” to those experi- vorced, I was devastated. My dream OUR thoughts and words are pow-
friend and an Coaches are very tricky people! Let me Do it! Start “dancing” and “dating!” You ences. had always been to be happily mar- erful
tell you a secret. We always want you to are bound to find a coach who becomes ried to one person for my lifetime WE each have the power to change
individual who believe you’re reaching answers on your a friend and an individual who will im- As a child, I decided that teasing and to have a lot of children. When and transform OUR life at any time

own. We ask A LOT of questions. Be ready pact your life forever. Know that you will was associated with unworthiness. this dream of being happily married through our mindset
will impact for that! One of my current coaches asks be putting in work, but it Is this a true statement? You get fell apart, I became bitter and angry. Everyone needs a “little help from
me a ton of questions, but I’m onto her! I will be so worth it because it’s work of to decide for yourself what you be- There was so much I did not under- our friends”
your life know her trickery all too well because it’s the heart that moves you closer to all of - stand. AND WHEN WE GET STUCK and can-
your dreams, visions, passions, and Hot
how I interact with my clients!
forever.” Pursuits! My process of recovery has occurred not see past our circumstances, we
We ask questions that will guide you to over many years, in many stages and can reach out to someone like me
your own answers because ultimately, www.stephsharmonioushealth.com has been WORTH every challenge. who has been through the muck
and mire and can help us find our
way back to who we are.

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