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Steady                                                                                                                                       Describe                                                                                                                                                                               Helpful                                                                                                                                             Unhelpful


















                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          ▪In a high pressure










                                                                                                                                                                     I am steady.                                                                                                                                                                              or difficult










                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               situation and






                                                                                                                                                                     I stay calm under                                                                                                                                                                         staying calm under                                                                                                                             When the situation











                                                                                                                                                                     pressure and when                                                                                                                                                                         the pressure                                                                                                                                   needs passion and











                                                                                                                                                                     things go wrong or                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       excitement – such as












                                                                                                                                                                     do not go my way.                                                                                                                                                                    ▪When we are                                                                                                                                        when our team has




                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               disappointed or
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              just won the match.











                                                                                                                                                                     I show big feelings in                                                                                                                                                                    worried and need











                                                                                                                                                                     ways that are ok for                                                                                                                                                                      to show this in a                                                                                                                              When we need to get











                                                                                                                                                                     people around me.                                                                                                                                                                         way which is ok                                                                                                                                emotional to get help.






                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               for others.











                                                                                                                                                                     I can become calm                                                                                                                                                                    ▪Controlling excited                                                                                                                                When we want to get











                                                                                                                                                                     and change my                                                                                                                                                                             feelings in ways                                                                                                                               the part going and











                                                                                                                                                                     energy to suit a                                                                                                                                                                          that are ok for                                                                                                                                need some energy!











                                                                                                                                                                     situation.                                                                                                                                                                                people around












                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               them













                        Emotional                                                                                                                                    Describe                                                                                                                                                                               Helpful                                                                                                                                             Unhelpful



















                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          At a party or disco.












                                                                                                                                                                     I passionate and                                                                                                                                                                     When someone                                                                                                                                        When the situation












                                                                                                                                                                     emotional.                                                                                                                                                                           gives us a gift.                                                                                                                                    needs a calm and





                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              steady approach and











                                                                                                                                                                     I show my emotions                                                                                                                                                                   When we are                                                                                                                                         not too much emotion,











                                                                                                                                                                     easily.                                                                                                                                                                              relaxing and having                                                                                                                                 such as working out












                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          fun with friends.                                                                                                                                   the right solution to a











                                                                                                                                                                     I am energetic and                                                                                                                                                                   When we need to                                                                                                                                     problem.











                                                                                                                                                                     excitable.                                                                                                                                                                           get emotional and                                                                                                                                   When someone is over-















                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          call for help to stay                                                                                                                               excited in a quiet place







                                                                                                                                                                     I am fun to be with!                                                                                                                                                                 safe.                                                                                                                                               e.g. a library.
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