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Triggers Here,Triggers There, Triggers Everywhere

even if they know pregnancy child loss, they may not under-
stand your particular experience. Start comparing your grief
loss journey to yourself, and let it manifest as it will. Let your-
self ride in the process.

Grieve Your Way

“It’s an invisible crippling pain nobody can see, but you
suffer from it daily. Some days you can manage the pain.
Other days it leaves you drowning. I lost my angel Paytyn
at exactly 12 weeks on 3-12-18, still struggle to cope.” —
Natasha, mother of Angel Paytyn Coburn

“Surviving is like being stranded in the middle of the ocean
searching for a life raft.” —Robyn, mother of Heavenly
Connor Grunden

“Surviving like trying to breathe but you can’t ever catch
your breath.” —Aprilee, mother of Heavenly Blayklee
May Pena

“Some days you will drown in your sorrow. Others you will
find hours of peace without realizing it. You most feel both to
find the healing hidden in the heartache. Take it moment by
moment.” —Jennifer, Mother of Heavenly baby

Child loss is so hard! The level of grief involved in saying
goodbye to your child when you planned to say hello and wel-
come them into your family, requires intentional healing to
match its destruction to your soul. Your dreams are shattered.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Your journey of
grief will look different than anyone who has lived, so it’s easy

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