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no two experiences will be the same. There’s always more for
you to learn, especially since Jesus loves tossing surprises at
disciplers.

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Devotions matter—a lot.
What’s reported will give you valuable insight into how to move
through each session. If you discover, for instance, that the
person you’re discipling doesn’t actually believe God loves her,

don’t skip past that! Set up camp there awhile, exploring what’s
behind the report.

5 Pace yourself.

Because these sessions are relational in nature, inviting con-
versation, timing may need to flex. Stay on topic, but consider
moving at the speed of discovery and relationship rather than
watching the clock nonstop.
That said, honor time commitments. It signals respect and concern.

But if it’s clear you won’t make it through a session in one hour because a
discussion had to happen and went long, ask to go longer—or tackle what
you missed the next time you’re together.

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Share your own stories, too.
Make them appropriate and brief, but when asked to share
something from your life, do so with transparency and honesty. It
opens up deep, revealing conversation.

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Pray—frequently.

You aren’t just teaching a class. You’re entering into a relation-
ship, putting yourself forward as someone to trust. Be worthy of
your role by praying daily for the person you’re discipling.

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