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Overcoming  Group  discussion  /Interview/

            Presentation Nerves





            • Knowledge/Competence. These aspects are related to each other and

               help greatly in overcoming the nerves. Thus, improvement in knowledge

               and competence, which lead to enhanced confidence, is vital.


            • Visualisation  and  Practice.  Visualise  the  event,  entire  seating

               arrangement and audience, etc, in your mind clearly and also visualise

               that you remain calm and confident and perform well. The more you re-

               hearse mentally the more confident you become. The mental rehearsals

               remove the novelty aspect and you feel that you have done it earlier and

               nerves remain in control.


            • Focus on Content. If you concentrate on the contents of what you have to

               speak and immerse yourself totally in that, you will become oblivious to

               the crowd and not experience nerves.


            • Deep  Breathing. A  person  who  is  calm  takes  slow  and  deep  breaths,

               while a nervous person breathes quick and shallow. By focusing on deep

               and slow breathing the effect of confidence can be induced!


            • Connect and Smile. Connect with the audience in a relaxed manner with

              a smile. When you start to speak, first greet the audience and smile. Speak

              more deliberately and clearly. Listening to your voice and pleasant reflec-


              tion from the audience, induced by your smile, will have a calming influ-

              ence and help control the nerves.





















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