Page 26 - Failure to Triumph - Journey of A Student

medicines. Nobody knows what we feel inside. Only we can know
how we feel.

Is masturbation right or wrong? Is it normal or harmful? What if I tell
you that it is immoral, unhealthy and bad and someone else says
that it’s good? Who are you going to believe? What I would suggest
you to do is- Do not believe anyone. If you have inculcated this habit
then try breaking it for 7 days and see what the doctor within you
says.
Do you feel better than before? Do you feel energetic? Do you feel
some kind of strength, a light within you? Or does the act make you

feel empty, guilty, weak and embarrassed? Are you feeling sad and
depressed? Are you thinking why did you even do this? Do you wish
to have a balanced state of mind without masturbating? The answers
to all these questions are within you. Only you have the power to
unlock all the answers you seek. You know what is best for you.

You should also know that anything related to sexual pleasure is
momentary. These momentary pleasures disturb your entire day. You
take a shower, eat your meal and decide to study with full
concentration but your entire plan is ruined when sexual thoughts
pop in your head. Once you get indulged in it, you can no longer
focus on your studies and everything is ruined thereafter. You are

unprepared to achieve your target. A certain degree of negativity
surrounds you from all directions.

The energy which you had saved for studies has gone down the
drain. Take in the fact that—for a small moment of pleasure you are
driving your entire life into darkness. You are risking your dreams

and career for these momentary pleasures. Do you really want to be
like this? Analyze yourself. Does it take only one photograph to get
you excited? If yes, then why do you follow actresses and models on
social media? Build a life which is free from all such unnecessary
burdens. If you deliberately watch something which is sexually
stimulating and then you promise yourself that you will control
yourself next time—you are just fooling yourself.