Page 27 - Failure to Triumph - Journey of A Student

Study groups can help enhance learning. There is nothing wrong in
studying together. But the group should not have even a single
member of the opposite sex. This way you will not only save yourself

from sexual thoughts but also from other peripheral matters, such as
of love, romantic relationships, emotional problems etc. You should
not stay alone for long durations, and if you feel any kind of sexual
urge then you should go for a run in any nearby park. This will help
you to have pure blood circulated to your brain, and when
oxygenated blood reaches your cells you will have more control on
your body and you will get less sexual thoughts. It is possible to
break your bad habits only if you have the right mental approach.

You can also do this —study the human body, the organs and their
functions, the organ systems- digestive, reproductive system etc.
Also read good books on physical education and sex education. If
you do not read these then you are at the risk of running into severe

misconceptions. The more you learn about the human body, the less
mysterious sex becomes for you. Sex is not a mystery and it requires
no sleuthing. It is the hush-hush attitude and taboo surrounding sex
which is making you all the more curious about it.

Pornography addiction has major drawbacks. It will make you think
that everyone should have a body like the porn stars. The girls who

work in these movies undergo several surgeries to get a perfect
body. They consume a lot of steroids and other medicines and also
use a lot of artificial things. You will create a false idea in your mind
that good sex is what is shown in such films, and slowly you will start
comparing yourself and your partner with the porn stars. You will
gradually develop inferiority complex because of your body and you

won’t step back from body-shaming your partner because they do
not have the perfect body which you desire. You will never be happy
because you will feel that their body is not perfectly proportional as
you would like it to be. The body image that you have in your mind
will wreak havoc in your happy relationship. Many a times the type of
content that is portrayed in such movies is completely unnatural and
very often it is aggressive and violent. After watching it continuously

you will start thinking that these unnatural activities bring utmost