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adversely affected by the actions of someone who they
             trusted. The noted author and therapist, Dr. Chet Welds
             says, “When a pastor falls into sin, the ripple effect on
             the lives of others is often immeasurable.”
                  What a lot of people aren’t aware of is, when there
             is trouble in a pastor’s relationship with God, it isn’t just
             the pastor who is adversely affected. The pastor’s entire
             household is affected. Where there are young children
             involved, the impact upon the household can be even
             more devastating.
                  Every fallen Christian  church  or ministry  leader,
             represents  innocent victims.  Sometimes the damage  is
             earth-shaking. Other times, it may be just a faint tremor,
             but someone else is always affected when  leaders fall.
             The members of the church suffer. They try to figure out
             their next move. Confused and bewildered, they scatter.
                  “But when he saw the multitudes, he was moved
                with  compassion on them, because they fainted,
                and were scattered abroad, as sheep having no
                shepherd.”                                    Matthew 9:36 (KJV)

                  People are left confused, wondering “What do I do
             now?” In some cases they find other churches, but their
             trust is broken. Then, there are the ones who begin to
             question whether any of this real, and sadly, they turn
             back to the world.
                  This is why Jesus said, Follow Me.” He didn’t say
             that we should follow His leaders, or His churches, or
             even other church members, but He Said, “Follow Me!”
             We are to follow our church leaders, but only as they
             follow Jesus Christ. No leader is above Christ.

                  If hurting church members can somehow see that
             their hurt didn’t come from Jesus. It came from men and
             women who are not unlike themselves.
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