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                    Teens - 20's:    Identity vs. Role
                                     Confusion
                    20's- 40's:      Intimacy vs. Isolation
                    40's - 60's:     Generativity vs.
                                     Stagnation
                    60's - beyond    Ego Integrity vs. Despair
                   Children from 8-12 years of age will primarily fall into
                   Industry vs. Inferiority stage.

                   Industry versus inferiority is the fourth stage of Erik
                   Erikson's theory of psychosocial development. This stage
                   occurs during childhood between the ages of five and
                   twelve.

                   Cognitively, children are beginning to learn to  read and
                   write and are generally more independent. Teachers begin
                   to take an important role in the child’s life as they teach the
                   child specific skills.

                   The child’s peer group gains greater significance and
                   becomes a major source  of the child’s self esteem. The
                   child, through demonstrating specific competencies  gains
                   approval. Children learn they are valued by society, and
                   begin to develop a sense of pride in their accomplishments.
                   Encouragement and reinforcement of initiatives increases
                   the desire for a child to be more industrious. Children also
                   gain in confidence related to their abilities which motivates
                   them to reach various goals.

                   If taking initiative is not encouraged, or if it is restricted by
                   caregivers or teachers, the child begins to feel inferior,
                   doubting his abilities. This negative frame may cause the
                   child not to reach his or her potential.

                   If the child cannot develop the specific skill he/she feels
                   society  is demanding (e.g., being athletic; reaching an
                   academic standard) then he/she may develop a sense of
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