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BIT CHIN  &   MO ANING




         HAVE RECENTLY REALIZED    and then Addy would decide,   a ride in the car might be   and went back to scream-
       I something really important   “hmm she likes it, maybe   a good move and possibly   ing.  I thought some Mac
        about sleep, we all need it,   I should try,” and the food   make her fall asleep, we set   and Cheese would solve the
        some more than others.  It   went in her mouth before I   out to take a leisurely drive   problem, I mean isn’t that like
        is funny how when we are   was quick enough to grab   with Addy to the Oceanside   a good shot of whiskey to
        children we will do whatever   it from her hand.  All I could   pier to see the sea lions.  A   an alcoholic.  Not my grand-
        we can to avoid going to   see were millions of doggie   very successful outing until   daughter, she did, however,
        sleep, but as we get older,   germs running rampant   we made the mistake of stop-  take a ten-minute break to
        we only wish we had taken   through her body as she   ping at a nice restaurant for   partake of the cheesy delight
        more naps as a child.   It   chewed her food.         lunch.  Addy proceeded to   and once again it was back
        seems at our current age no   When feeding time was   scream as if I was feeding her   to the screaming at decibel
        one will let us just lay down                                                     levels that would shatter
        in the middle of the day and                                                      glass.  This was my cue to
        announce “I’m taking a nap, I   Sleep Deprivation                                 take her outside until she
        will finish my work later when                                                    calmed down.  Sleep, she
        I’m not so grumpy.”  I guess                                                      needs sleep.  Maybe the car
        this realization came to me                                                       ride home would do it.  So in
        when I foolishly offered to               By Judith A. Habert                     the car, we went, and she was
        give my daughter a break and                                                      sleepless in the car seat.  Back
        have my fourteen-month-old                                                        home and some serious nap
        granddaughter spend the                                                           time was about to happen if
        night.  What I didn’t know at                                                     it killed me, and it almost did.
        the time was that my young-                                                       Finally, snuggled in my bed
        er daughter would be in need                                                      with her, another bottle, and
        of my grandma duties the                                                          her favorite cartoon Peppa
        same night and so I would                                                         Pig, those eyelids finally
        also be taking care of Mocha                                                      closed.  What a relief.  I shut
        her eight-month-old Frenchie                                                      my eyes hoping to make
        Bulldog, who is now consid-                                                       up for the sleep depriva-
        ered my furry granddaughter.                                                      tion that only a new parent
           So, when you put                                                               understands, when my furry
        14-month-old baby with                                                            granddaughter decided she
        eight-month-old furry baby,                                                       did not appropriately wel-
        the fun just never stops.  The                                                    come me home. She jumped
        day started easy enough with                                                      up on the bed and gave me a
        Addy, my Granddaughter,                                                           face full of kisses, and when
        crawling furiously across the                                                     she was done with me, she
        living room, dining room, and                                                     proceeded to lick the face
        kitchen area, with the little   over, I thought a nap might   to one of those sea lions.  The   off of Addy.  So much for the
        furry baby following right   be in order, Wrong! Appar-  reason? She needed sleep.    nap.  Off the two went, back
        behind.  They actually play   ently, Addy did not agree.   Well if she did, you can only   and forth through the kitch-
        together which is really cute   Off Addy went walking her   imagine how much I did.  So,   en, dining room, and living
        I must say, in the beginning.    wobbly walk, barely missing   I used her mother’s routine   room, crawling at full speed
        When breakfast time came,   the edges of my coffee table   for getting her to take a nap.   with my furry grandbaby
        and Addy was in her high-  and side tables, which are   I found the cozy blanket that   close behind. No sleep for the
        chair she proceeded to put   glass, but they were covered   I brought along, nestled her   weary as the saying goes, but
        her hand down on the side   in blankets to minimize the   close, bottle placed in the   if I put aside that pesky need
        of the highchair and share   effect of a possible slip. I   mouth humming her favorite   for sleep,  the truth is there is
        some of her breakfast with   didn’t’ foresee the emergency  song at a low whisper, and   no better site than that inno-
        Mocha. This would have been   room as the way I wanted to   as soon as the bottle was   cent little face looking up at
        okay if Mocha took it, but   spend the rest of my day.  done, Addy picked her head   me and giggling.  Hell, who
        instead, she would just lick it,   Thinking that going for   up pushed off the blanket   needs sleep.


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