Page 23 - Pure Magazine Issue 2

Prioritise yourself
Set clear goals

It is great to be empathetic and
Give yourself a reason to get out of bed
and get going with your day. If you have a connected to those around you, however,
resilient people know when they need to
big goal in mind, break it down. Set
take priority. People pleasing, and the
yourself smaller short terms goals which
constant worry of what others think that
will help you along the way to achieving
your dream. This way you will feel satisfied comes with it, is a crippling habit that will
only ever end with you putting your needs
and motivated by making daily progress,
aside at the first sign of disapproval from
rather than waiting for one big pay out at
others. If you’re not hurting anybody and
the end, which may never come if you run
out of drive along the way. This way you your goals are going to benefit you and
maybe even those around you, learn
are also more likely to continue on a path
when to say no and how to set healthy
towards your big goal even when hiccups
boundaries with those around you.
arise along the way. Smaller, short term
goals can often be achieved in a variety of
ways, meaning you can sidestep hold ups
as they occur.

Learn to see ‘failure’ as a lesson, not a
mistake

This is where ‘get back on the horse’ truly
applies. Resilient people look upon a
situation that didn’t work out and view it
as a lesson learnt and an avenue explored
rather than a mistake which should have
been avoided. We all make mistakes;
these experiences are often our most
valuable in terms of personal growth and
development. The most successful
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