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Insight One                                                                                                Insight Two




                        The transition to parenthood is an emotional                                                               Information for parents needs to be


                        and time consuming stage of life.                                                                          transparent and from a trusted source





                         Significant     Emotional                     Focus solely      Best           Very                         GP and         Trusted       Unsure of      Online is too   Forums to       Avoided
                           shift in     rollercoaster   You have         on the       decision to    different to                    district       medical      social media     American          ask         apps and
                                         with highs     to adapt         child’s       become a      pre-parent                                     sources                                      questions       online
                          identify                                                                                                    nurse                         trends         focused
                                          and lows                     well-being       parent           life                                       HSE/NHS                                     we're useful    platforms




                                  It’s definitely been a journey of ups and downs, highs and                                                 If I ever wanted advice, I asked my mother or sister. I was

                                  lows. It’s so taxing but so fulfilling all at the same time.                                               selective in who I listened to.








                                                                                                                                Insight Four

                      Insight Three


                                                                                                                                Parents need connections that are inclusive
                      Parents need flexibility both in time and location
                                                                                                                                and non-judgemental
                      to work around schedules (naps, work etc.)



                                                                                                                                 Felt excluded                  Criticism
                                                                                                                                 from cliquish   Didn't like                                    Lack of
                        Groups          Rigid                       Preferred                                                                                     over         Felt out of                    Relied on
                                                                                                                                  parenting     advice from                                     deeper
                       conflicts     schedules of    Reduced         informal       Lack of         Sleep                          groups.        others        parenting        place       connections    their partner
                       with daily       local        personal        meetups        Flexibility  deprivation                                                    choices
                                      parenting        time        with friends
                       routines.
                                       groups                       and family

                                                                                                                                          I don’t want to be listening to other people’s opinions or
                               The lack of sleep and time have been the hardest. It’s
                                                                                                                                          having ideas thrown down my throat about how I’m
                               tough to balance everything.
                                                                                                                                          supposed to be doing things.









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