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Rabbi Mark Dratch




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              he   gripping,  challenging    transformative, monumental event,   in  Egypt  and  he  was  released  from
              story of the Binding of        nothing seemed to have changed;     prison. It is the day on which He
        TYitzchak ends with strange          life  seemed  to  return  to  normal.   remembers us. The great challenge
        verses that appear to have little    This epitomized Avraham’s fate      for us on this Yom HaZikaron is to
        importance, meaning or relevance,    in the world in which he lived.  No   notice others and be sensitive to
        certainly to the holy day of Rosh    wonder he was called  Ivri… all     their circumstances.
        Hashanah: “And it came to pass       alone, from the other side.
        after these things, that it was told to                                  In determining when the night
        Avraham, saying, Behold, Milcah,     We   can   all  relate  to  this    has ended and the day has begun,
        she  has  also  born children to your   phenomenon of being unnoticed.   the rabbis offer many opinions.
        brother Nachor; Utz his firstborn...   It happens so often by others, by   One suggests it is the time when
        And Betuel fathered Rivka… And       spouses, friends, parents,  children,   a person can distinguish between
        his concubine, whose name was        rabbis and congregations. People    the white and blue threads of the
        Reumah, she bore also Tevach,        live lives and yet many do not      tzitzit in natural light. Another,
        Gacham, and...”  (Genesis 22, 20-24).  notice them or their problems or   significant for us, is the time when
                                             their troubles or their cares or their   you can recognize your friend
        And  even if  these verses are       nightmares or their dreams.         from a distance of four cubits. The
        important to teach us of the birth                                       night is when we cannot see each
        of the future matriarch, why include   We often misjudge and feel        other. Darkness is when we cannot
        them in the morning’s reading?       misjudged. We often feel unnoticed   recognize what others need, why
        They appear to be  an anticlimax,    or abandoned by others.  Perhaps    others cry, who the other is. And the
        filled with petty family gossip of   one of the greatest of human        dawn breaks when we begin to take
        babies and concubines. Certainly,    miseries is to feel  unnoticed by   notice. Light of day comes when we
        they pale in comparison to the great   G-d, unanswered, even deserted,   become aware of each other's hopes
        testimony of faith and sacrifice.    especially at vulnerable  moments   and dreams and needs. It is when we
                                             of loss or sickness or fear. This   can look at the face of any man or
        The Akeida should have shaken the    problem is not mine or yours alone.   woman and see that it is our sister
        world at its very foundation. It is   King David himself, in Psalms,     or brother. Because if we cannot see
        the only thing that people should    pleads, “My G-d, my G-d, why have   this, it is still night.
        have talked about. They should       you forsaken me? Why are you so
        have rushed Avraham, asked him       far from helping me, from the words   May the night of indifference turn
        questions,  and  listened  to  his  take   of my loud complaint?”  “O my G-d,   into a dawn of caring. May the
        on how it affected him, the impact   I cry in the daytime, but you do not   darkness of indifference transform
        the experience was to have on world   hear; and in the night, and I have   into the light of respect and
        history, on relationships with G-d.   no rest.”  “Do not forsake me, O   kindness.  Or  chadash  al  Tzion
        Instead, he encountered a world      L-rd! O my G-d, do not be far from   ta’ir… May we merit a new light of
        that was uninterested, unaffected,   me!” “Cast me not off in the time   care and respect dawn on Zion, on
        unmoved. One of the greatest         of old age; forsake me not when     our families and on our community,
        moments  in spiritual history was    my strength fails.” This longing    and may we bathe in its brightness
        trivialized into nothingness. A      becomes the impetus  for prayer…    and warmth soon. Achievement,
        world in which no one understood,    remember me, notice me.             success and peace for all of us, and
        in which no one paid attention.                                          for all mankind.
                                             On Rosh Hashanah, G-d models
        Or perhaps this was another          for us the great capacity for
        aspect of the great test of the      remembering, for taking notice, for
        Akeida: to be misunderstood,         caring. It is the day on which G-d
        unnoticed, and forgotten and yet     remembered  Sarah and Chana and     Rabbi Mark Dratch is Executive  Vice
        to persevere. These verses seem to   answered their prayers. It is the day   President  of the  Rabbinical Council  of
        indicate that after this life-altering,   on which G-d remembered Yosef   America


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