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YAMIM NORA’IM READING



                                                                                    Rabbanit Sally Mayer



                The Inspiration to Change







                e read in Parashat Nitzavim   Later, when Yosef’s brothers encoun-  king, your punishment will be public
                that the mitzvah of teshuva   ter the Egyptian viceroy’s hostility and   humiliation. After hearing this, David
       Wis  אי ִ ה  םִי ַ מ ׁ ָּ ש ַ ב אלֹ – “not in   false accusation, they whisper to each   acknowledges his guilt: 'ה ַ ל י ִ תא ָ ט ָ ח. No
       heaven or across the sea,” far away and   other, ּונ ְ חַנ ֲ א םי ִ מ ׁ ֵ ש ֲ א ל ָ ב ֲ א – we are guilty, for   excuses but simply: “I take responsibil-
       unreachable, but rather within our    we did not listen to our brother’s cries.   ity.” Natan responds that G-d accepts the
       grasp and our ability to accomplish.   What inspired their feelings of teshuva?   teshuva, at least partially, for he will not
       The Torah makes it sound so easy! Let’s   It seems they did not feel remorse after   die. But the other punishments stand.
       look together at three cases of teshuva   the sale, nor after they see their father’s   We have now three models: Yehuda’s
       in Tanach to learn more about teshuva.  suffering when he concludes Yosef has
                                             been killed. They feel remorse when   teshuva, which is the ideal, since he is
       Upon realizing that Yehuda will never   they experience yisurin: difficulties and   lucky enough to be offered the oppor-
       fulfill his promise of allowing Sheilah to   suffering. As they experienced this per-  tunity to admit his sin without suffering
       marry her, Tamar, Yehuda’s daughter-in-  secution, and while they did not know   or punishment, and he has the courage
       law, disguises herself as a prostitute to   for sure this was a punishment from   and character to seize the chance; the
       tempt Yehuda, who does not recognize   G-d, they began to question, why is this   model of the brothers, who as a result
       her. Several months later, when Tamar’s   happening?                       of their suffering, look at themselves
                                                                                  and how they can mend their ways; and
       pregnancy from that encounter comes to   David  HaMelech,  a  descendant  of   finally, David, who admits his sin only
       light, Yehuda condemns Tamar to death   Yehuda and Tamar, sees, desires and   after hearing his punishment, but yet
       for her adultery, as she was still tied to   takes Batsheva while her husband is   that teshuva is meaningful and accepted
       Sheilah. As she walks to her death, she   away at battle. Upon discovering she   as well.
       sends Yehuda his ring, staff, and cord   is pregnant, David invites her husband
       she had taken from him as collateral,   Uriah home from the battlefield, in the   Rav  Soloveichik  writes  in  Halachic
       and says אָנ ר ֶּ כ ַ ה – please recognize these   hope he will go home to his wife and   Man that “Repentance, according to
       items – whose are they? Yehuda hears   thus assume the baby is his own. Uriah’s   the halachic view, is an act of creation
       the echo of the cruel אָנ ר ֶּ כ ַ ה message he   refusal to go home to be with his wife   – self-creation. The severing of one’s
       sent to his father – “Do you recognize   while Am Yisrael is in danger on the   psychic identity with one’s previous ‘I,’
       this coat dripping with blood as your   battlefield is an ironic condemnation of   and the creation of a new ‘I,’ possessor
       son Yosef’s?”                         David’s sin. David then orchestrates Uri-  of a new consciousness, a new heart and
                                             ah’s death in battle and takes Batsheva as   spirit, different desires, longings, goals
       At this moment, Yehuda faced a terri-  his wife after she mourns her husband.  – this is the meaning of that repentance
       ble choice: publicly humiliate himself                                     compounded of regret over the past and
       by admitting to this intimate encounter   Natan HaNavi goes to David and tells   resolve for the future.” At this challeng-
       with his daughter-in-law, or allow Tamar   him a story about a rich man who   ing time, may we all find within our-
                                             takes a poor man’s sheep to feed to his
       – and his own unborn children – to die   guest instead of taking one from his   selves the creative power to transform
       by fire. Yehuda summons up the cour-  own sizable flock. David pronounces   ourselves this year with sincere teshuva
       age, and in two words redeems himself   that this man should be killed. Natan   and lasting change.
       and rises to lead the family: יִּנ ֶּ מ ִ מ ה ָ ק ְ ד ָ צ –   Hanavi responds to David – You are
       she is more right than I. His recognition   that man, and therefore you will suffer
       of his responsibility for the situation,   punishment: the sword will never leave
       combined with his strength of character   your family, and another man will take   Rabbanit  Sally  Mayer serves as Rosh
       and willingness to be humbled, inspired   your wives openly: while you were able   Midrasha at Ohr Torah Stone’s Midreshet
       his successful teshuva.               to sin secretly using the power of the   Lindenbaum



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