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            2.  Classic forgiveness of the debt (other  to the novel understanding of what mechila ac-
               Rishonim).                         tually is, would agree here that he hasn’t fulfilled
                                                  the mitzva, for ultimately the food was not edible
        In relating this back to our discussion, the Rema
        who rules that mechila works for mishloach manot   for him.
        understands like the Rosh (definition 1): mechi-  Importance – תובישח
        la is really an acceptance and return of the object   However even according to the Korban Netanel
        as a gift, and that’s why there is no difference be-  one could argue that whether the Rema would
        tween a physical acceptance and mechila. On the   hold that the sender still fulfills his obligation in
        other hand, the Pri Chadash held like definition   our case depends on another variable – the con-
        2, that mechila is only forgiveness, and that’s why   cept of importance.
        one does not fulfill one’s obligation: There is no          16
                                                     The Chayei Adam  proves from the Yerushal-
        actual acceptance.                        mi  that every mishloach manot has to contain
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          According to this explanation, one could still   two kinds of food or drinks of important value.
        interpret the Rema as holding that the reason for   The question is as follows: Is the importance is
        the mitzva is to ensure that all have what to eat,   measured according to the sender or according
        and mechila only works because it is as if there   to the recipient? If someone poor sends his rich
        was an acceptance. If so, mechila would only work   friend a cheap bottle of wine as mishloach manot
        if the contents of the mishloach manot were ed-  would this constitute a valid mishloach manot? If
        ible. But in our case where the contents of the   we measure the importance and value according
        mishloach manot are not edible for the recipient,   to the recipient, a cheap bottle of wine might not
        the sender would not fulfill his obligation, even   be considered of value for the rich friend, and he
        if the recipient would be mochel, since mechila is   will definitely not serve it during the Purim meal,
        an acceptance, and even if he would have actually   hence the sender would not fulfill his obligation.
        accepted the mishloach manot the sender would   This question also has ramifications for our case.
        not be have fulfilled his obligation.     When someone sends his diabetic friend mish-
          To summarize what we have learned until   loach manot that he can’t eat, if we measure the
        now. The Rema and the Pri Chadash disagree re-  importance according to the sender it is still valid,
        garding whether the sender fulfills his obligation   but if we measure according to the recipient, per-
        if the recipient is mochel their mishloach manot.   haps the food has no value for him and the sender
        We saw two different ways to explain the opin-  does not fulfill his obligation. The same question
        ion of the Rema (the Chatam Sofer versus the Ko-  would apply in the reverse scenario: If someone
        rban Netanel and Rabbi Befler) and the ramifica-  who has diabetes sends food that he can’t eat to a
        tions for our case: According to the Chatam Sofer,   friend who does not have diabetes, if we measure
        the sender fulfills his obligation, as there is an in-  importance based on the sender, he does not ful-
        crease of friendship, which is the reason for the   fill the mitzva, but if we measure by the recipient,
        mitzva according to his explanation of the Rema.   the sender can fulfill the mitzva.
        By contrast, the Korban Netanel, who understood   At first glance, it seems that we can prove from
        the Rema’s reason for the mitzva as being based   Rabbeinu Chananel  that we measure accord-
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        on having what to eat, and mechila working due   ing to the sender. The Gemara in Megilla brings


        16.  Chayei Adam 155:31
        17.  Yerushalmi Megilla 8:4
        18.  Masechet Megilla 7a


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