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眉目作山河，处事才有分寸。
Only when you have mountains and rivers in your eyes can you handle things in a proper way.
极目，才有格局。欲成大树，勿与草争；欲戴皇冠，必承其重。人之一生，纵有百岁，亦不过 3 万余天：争得
的权力，终有天会回归布衣之身；争得的富贵，终归满足不了心的欲望。《红楼梦》里，“好了歌”说得透彻：
Only in the extreme can there be a pattern. If you want to be a big tree, don't fight with the grass; If you want to
wear a crown, you must bear its weight. A man's life, even if he is a hundred years old, will last only 30000 days: the
power he has won will eventually return to his clothes; The wealth won cannot satisfy the desire of the heart. In A
Dream of Red Mansions, the "good song" is very clear:
世人都晓神仙好，惟有功名忘不了！
古今将相在何方？荒冢一堆草没了。
世人都晓神仙好，只有金银忘不了！
终朝只恨聚无多，及到多时眼闭了。
世人都晓神仙好，只有娇妻忘不了！
君生日日说恩情，君死又随人去了。
世人都晓神仙好，只有儿孙忘不了！
痴心父母古来多，孝顺儿孙谁见了？
The world knows that immortals are good, but their fame can't be forgotten!
Where are the ancient and modern prime ministers? A heap of grass has disappeared from the wasteland.
The world knows that immortals are good, only gold and silver can't forget!
Finally, I only hate to get together with Wuduo, and my eyes are closed for a long time.
The world knows that immortals are good, but only the beautiful wife can't forget them!
When you said your kindness on your birthday, you died with others.
The world knows that immortals are good. Only children and grandchildren can't forget them!
There are many infatuated parents, but who has seen filial piety?
因此，放大自我格局，放平心态，做一个简简单单的俗人，最好！老人说：粗茶淡饭最养人。这话里，有禅机，
细品如橄榄，越嚼越有味。极目，才有境界。红尘一世，追梦者最美。岁月荏苒，每年年末复盘，我们总该为自己、
为后人留下点“做人的情怀”：不为功利，不务虚声，而是实实在在、问心无愧、尽心尽力、清清白白，为社会贡
献自己的青春和热血。郭德纲说：“江山父老能容我，不使人间造孽钱”，话实在，在理！
Therefore, it is best to enlarge the self pattern, calm down and be a simple layman! The old man said: Simple
food is the most nutritious. There is Zen in these words. The more you chew, the more delicious you taste. Only with
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