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Clarifying what I wanted in every key area
                                                                 (health,  relationships,  career,  spiritual,
                                                                 financial,  and  social  life)  became  the
                                                                 foundation  on  which  everything  else  was
                                                                 built.  And  in  this  clarity  I  found  freedom.
                                                                 Amazing freedom, decisions became easy
                                                                 and guilt-free. I was free to spend my time,
                                                                 energy,  and  money  on  the  things  that
                                                                 mirrored my desires not those of someone
                                                                 else.



                                                                 Now with an understanding of what I did
                                                                 want,  the  next  question  was  what  was
                                                                 keeping  me  from  having  those  things  in
                                                                 my life? There were many beliefs that were
                                                                 lying  deep  in  my  subconscious  and  they
                                                                 were playing a role I couldn’t see. I set out
                                                                 to really know and own what were my true
                                                                 beliefs  and  values.  I  honored  those  that
        Statistics  say  that  less  than  2%  of  the
        population can answer the question…What                  were  serving  me  and  released  those  that
        do you want? It’s not a linear question but              were  not  with  the  help  of  coaches  of  my
        rather  a  deep  heart  and  soul  level                 own and some amazing master trainers.
        question. One that once answered can be
        life changing.                                           So with clarity around what I wanted and
                                                                 the  tools  to  identify  and  clear  what  was

        Like  most  people,  I  was  shaped  and                 keeping me from it, the next big step was
        influenced right from birth by my parents,               to claim the life I wanted.
        extended family, clergy, educators, etc. As
        a  result,  I  learned  to  want  what  I  was           This      is    where       intention       meets
        taught  to  want.  And  then  I  began  to  live         commitment.  It  calls  into  question  why  I

        my life accordingly and to follow along the              want something and if I want it enough to
        path  “I  was  supposed  to  follow”.  Before  I         do  what’s  required  to  have  it.  I  had  to
        knew it, I was completely submerged in a                 figure  out  who  I  was  required  to  be,  and
        life I never really planned for myself. I often          what  I  was  required  to  do  (more
        felt  disconnected  from  my  life  or  like  it         importantly what to stop doing) in order to
        never really fit me.                                     have what I wanted in my life.














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