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immediate way but only to give them a safe space to address
their problem from. Then we can offer our opinion as to how

we might address the problem should it be ours. Remember it is
their problem to be resolved through their own uniqueness.
When they finally solve their problem then they need to be able

to leave it behind them. If they cannot then they have not
gained to positive benefits of the experience and you will often

find that there is indebtedness still attached. If you are in some
way involved in the help you might need to learn how to
receive the gratitude for your help. This gratitude usually is to

be received in your earth lifetime and not be waiting there for
you in the next world. The person helped can need for you to

become the receiver of their gratitude and thereby resolve their
indebtedness. Would you have a problem with this?
We need to be careful when we accept help from

others. There is a rule that we can apply: Never lend that which
you cannot afford to give, and never borrow that which you
cannot afford to pay back.