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spiritually strong child will laugh at any bullying attempts.
Unfortunately this can cause the bullying to escalate until it
moves from verbal to physical. The parent of the bully always
offers them support whether consciously or unconsciously.
Very often the establishment also supports the bully again
either consciously or unconsciously. Should the child also
have support for its ego as well as its Spirit then they will be
so strong that the bully will not attempt to bully. The strength
is in the balance of Spirit and ego resulting in great
confidence. This balanced child knows and doesn’t need to
feel threatened or controlled to test itself. This child is also
very hard to manipulate to fulfil our wishes, which of course
is correct. With proper encouragement this child can achieve
any goal it wishes. This is how any child can teach the bully a
lesson, a lesson in how to live and be happy, even though still
dependant of adults.

It might be surprising to find the spiritually there is little
difference in the backgrounds of the bully and the bullied. The
bully will have no compassion, no understanding in its life,
and very definitely no real love, the love that comes through
the Spirit. When the bully is exposed the shame that is
associated with the exposure will be the only restraint but
never the prevention. All the shame will do is harden and
alienate the bully further from the source of love. even if love
is offered it will be rejected as the bully does not have the
experience of love and certainly has no trust of it. The future
of the bully is