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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                                                                    םייח ץפח רפס
                                   Hilchot Esurei Rechilut                                                              תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
                                          Kelal Tet                                                                         ג הכלה -  ז ללכ


                                                                                                     ררֵוֹעל אלֶֹּשׁ המּכו המּכּ תחא לעו ,הבּרְה דוֹבכּ ןהבּ גֹהנִלו
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                                                                                                           .ל"נּה לכּ ךְוּפִּה םרֵוֹגּ הז רבדֶּשׁ ,וילע םינדְמ
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                               Hilchot Esurei Rechilut
                                                                                                     לֵעפְּתי אלֶֹּשׁ אוּה עוּדי יִכּ ,וֹרוּפִּסִּמ תחמוֹצּה הבִּסּה דצִּמ )ג
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                        Kelal     Tet                 (RK9 - 9   chapter)                            וֹל הָשׂע וֹא ,וֹתוֹא הנּגּ ץרֶאה םעֵמ דחאֶשׁכּ ,ךְכּ לכּ םדא
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                   An explanation of when gossip is permitted as the                                 םכח דיִמלַתֶּשׁ ,דחא וֹל רפּסי םִא לבא ,הלוע רבדּ םוּשׁ
                   conditions of this Kelal are fulfilled.  There are 15                             ליגרָו ,וילע וֹבִּלבּ האנִשׂ סנכִּתּ רֵתוֹי יאדּובּ ,וֹתוֹא הנּגּ
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                                  halachot in this Kelal.
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                                                                                                     לע רפּסְמ םִא טרְָפִבוּ ,הז ידֵי לע םינדְמ ררֵוֹעְתִהל דֹאְמ
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                                                                                                     םיִלוּקלקִ  הז  ידֵי  לע  אוֹבל  ליגרָ  יאדּובּ  ,ריִעבֶּשׁ  ברַה
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                                                                                                     לע שׁמּמ וייּחל וֹמִּע דרֵוֹי םיִמעְפּ המּכו ,דֹאְמ דע םיִלוֹדגּ
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                In our discussion above of the esur of Lashon Hara, in the 10  Kelal, we                                      .הז ידֵי
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                explained the circumstances which would permit one to speak Lashon Hara
                against someone who was behaving inappropriately in an interpersonal                 .לולא ב"י ,רייא 'ב ,תבט ב"כ - תרבועמ הנש    .לולא ג"י ,רייא ג"י ,תבט ג"י - הטושפ הנש :ימוי חול
                framework and this speaker intends to achieve a useful \ beneficial outcome.
                (Please see that reference).  In this Kelal we will explain the circumstances        םִא ןיבּ ,תוּליִכרְ רוּסִּאבּ קוּלִּח םוּשׁ ןיאדּ ,דוֹע עדַו .ג
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                under which someone would be allowed to gossip as long as the speaker’s
                intent is to prevent some harm from occurring.  I ask Hashem for guidance            וֹא  ,וילע  רבּדּ  ינוֹלְפֶּשּׁ  המ  ,הּפוּגּ  ןבוּארְִל  רפּסְמ  אוּה
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                that I not make any mistakes in formulating these laws.                                                                                                                                                                                             VOL-4
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                                                                                                     ערַי יאדּובּ יִכּ ,ויבוֹרקְוּ ןבוּארְ תֶשׁאל )ג( הֶז רָבָדּ רֵפַּסְמ
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                                                                                                     וּלִּפא ןכלו ,הז רוּבֲע ינוֹלְפּ לע םבִּלבּ וּטקְניו ,םהיניֵעבּ
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                                    Be’er Mayim Chayim
                                                                                                     הז רבדּ אקְָפנ אלֹ ,רבדּ םהֵמ עדַוּי לאֶשׁ ,םרָיִהזִה םִא
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                Before  I  begin  this  subject  I  would  like  to  place  before  the  reader  an
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                important rule that is essential to this entire discussion.  Understand an                                .תוּליִכרְ ללכִּמ
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                essential rule clearly from the writings of the Rambam in the 7  perek of
                Hilchot De’Aut (the 5  halacha), quoted as follows:  “If someone conveyed
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                information to his fellow Jew, any remarks at all that if they became known
                would cause physical harm to the “victim” or cause a financial loss to him                                 םייח םימ ראב
                or cause him anguish, sorrow or to become afraid, is Lashon Hara.”  It is
                apparent that this law of Lashon Hara is unlike other laws that apply to                המ ,רחאל וליפא רפסל רוסאד םגה .ןבואר תשאל )ג(
                financial damages (losses), where the Torah absolves a person from being                ךרבחד ,ינולפל ז"יע עדווי ןפ ,ינולפ לע רביד ינולפש
                responsible if he was an indirect cause that eventually resulted in a loss.
                Those laws are very different than this Lav of Lashon Hara where this                   אקפנ םוקמ לכמ ,ג"ס 'ג ללכב ל"נכו היל תיא ארבח                                                                                                              9
                person would immediately be held culpable (even before the onset of any
                                                                                                        רבד םהמ עדונ אלו םדא םושל תולגלמ ןריהזה םא הנימ
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