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Introduction to                        החיתפ                                                                                                                                  8 VOL-1
 Sefer Chafetz Chayim               םייח ץפח רפסל
 Aseen - A3
                                      א השע - ןישע

 Be’er Mayim Chayim   םינהכה םכתא ורוי רשא לככ תושעלו הרהזאה םע
 (A2)..In talking about / reporting on another Jew, this person    תא רוכזב ריהזה ךכ רחאו ,תרהב ץוקי אלש רמולכ
 also transgresses the Aseh… ..love his fellow Jew:  This is the    .הפה תריכזב םג םירמל ךיהלא 'ה השע רשא
 language  of  the  Rambam  in  the  6   perek  of  Hilchot  De’Aut,  the  3
 th
 rd
 paragraph.  There is a mitzvah that is incumbent on everyone to love all
 of his fellow Jews as much as he loves himself, as the pasuk teaches “..    ידכ קלמע ךל השעש המ תריכזב וניוטצנ רשאכ הנהו
 and you should love your fellow Jew as much as you love yourself ..”.      ונילע ותלמחמ קר ומש לאה החמי םנח לע אלש תעדל
 Therefore one is obligated to speak well of his fellow Jew and to be as
 careful with his money as he would be with his own personal honor and    הלעתי ונממ ארי היה אלשו ונל השעש סמחה םוקנל
 with his own money.  Someone who increases his own personal honor at    ןושלמ רמשהל םירמל השענש המ תריכזב וניוטצנ ךכ
 the expense of the shame of his fellow Jew has no share in Olam Haba
 (quoted up until this point).  This is also the opinion of the Chinuch in    ,תוצמה רפסב רוהטה ל"כע הככ ונאובי אלש ערה
 listing mitzvah #243, quoted as follows:  One is obligated to dearly love    יוארש וירבדל םיכסה אוה םגש רתסא תליגמב ש"יעו
 all of his fellow Jews, meaning that He must have compassion for them
 all and protect their wealth just as he would have compassion for himself   .ירפסב אצמנ ןכש רחאמ השע תוצמב התונמל
 and protect his own wealth.  Generally speaking, one must care for each
 of his fellow Jews as he cares for himself, to protect their money and
 keep them far from any harm.  And if he should speak about his fellow    כ"ג 'וכו רוכז תשרפ לע אצת תשרפ שמוחב ן"במרהו
 Jew, He should speak his praises and protect his honor (please see that    שממ השע תוצמ איהש יתעד יפלו ונושל הזו הזכ בתכ
 reference).  The comments written here apply to all eight qualities for the
 reasons listed above.   רוכז ,םירצממ םתאצי רשא הזה םויה תא רוכז ומכ
                   ,קלמע ךל השע רשא תא רוכז ,ושדקל תבשה םוי תא
                   רבדלמ הרהזא איהו .םתומכ הז םג ןכ םא ,הוצמ םלוכ
 Daily Halacha: 19 Tishri, 18 Shevat, 18 Sivan;   Leap Year- 19 Tishri, 28 Shevat, 8 Sivan
                   לודגה שנועה רוכזנש השע תוצמב הוצי ,ערה ןושל
 Mekor Hachayim
                   היחאב אלא הרביד אלש האיבנה תקדצל 'ה השעש
 A3.  On occasion, this person will also violate the Aseh (3)  of      וינפב הרבד אלו ,השפנכ ותבהא רשא ,השפנ לומג
 (Vayikrah 19:15) “judge your fellow Jew charitably.”  For example,
 if one heard someone or saw someone doing something questionable    שודקה היחא ןיבל הניב קר ,םיבר ינפב אלו שוביש
 and one can judge him favorably and meritoriously or judge him in the    התא םג ,הוליעוה אל םיבוטה הישעמ לכו ,הענצב
 an opposite vein, even he is only an average person, one is obligated
 by the Torah to abide by the Aseh of judging him favorably.  (And    .לצנת אל יפוד ןתת ךמא ןבב רבדת ךיחאב בשת םא
 if this person is G‑d fearing, one must judge him favorably even if    הזב הז לע םייסו ,ירפסמ הרורב היאר הז לע איבהו
 the circumstances would seem to lean more towards judging him    אלו הוצמ התוא ושעי וניתוברש הארנ ןאכמ :ןושלה
 unfavorably.)  Anyone who publicizes this person’s indiscretions
 and faults because of what he heard or saw, or anyone who accepts    ,םיעגנה ןמ לצנהל דבלב הצעו רופס
 as truth the denigrating remarks made about this person and does
 not judge him favorably transgresses this Aseh.



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