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11. Does your partner often drink or use drugs?

12. Does your partner insist that you drink or use drugs with him?

13. Have you lost friends or no longer see some of your family because of your
partner?

14. Does your partner accuse you of being interested in someone else?

15. Does your partner read your mail, go through your purse, wallet, phone, or
other personal papers?

16. Does your partner keep money from you, keep you in debt, or have "money
secrets”?

17. Has your partner kept you from getting a job or caused you to lose a job?

18. Has your partner sold your car, made you give up your license, or not
repaired your car?

19. Does your partner threaten to hurt you, your children, family, friends, or
pets?

20. Does your partner force you to have sex when you do not want to?

21. Does your partner force you to have sex in ways that you do not want to?

22. Does your partner threaten to kill you or themselves if you leave?

23. Is your partner like "Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde," acting one way in front of
other people and another way when you are alone?

If you answered yes to one or more of these questions, then you may be at
risk for domestic violence. Seek assistance from National Domestic Violence
Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (www.ndvh.org).

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