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RokZRooM Special ! You Can Win by Shiv Khera

♦ Make him believe that winning is not everything. It is the only thing and he will make
every effort to win by hook or by crook.
♦ Give a child everything he wants right from infancy and he will grow up believing that
the world owes him a living and everything will be handed to him on a platter.
♦ When he picks up bad language, laugh at him. This will make him think he is cute.
♦ Don't ever give him any moral or ethical values. Wait until he is 21 and let him
"determine his own."
♦ Give him choices without direction. Never teach him that every choice has a
consequence.
♦ Never tell him he is wrong, he might develop a complex. This will condition him to
believe that society is against him when he gets arrested for doing something wrong.
♦ Always pick up things that he leaves lying around--books, shoes, clothes, etc. Do
everything for him so that he will learn to push all responsibilities onto others.
♦ Let him read, watch and hear anything he wants. Be careful what he feeds his body,
but let his mind feed on garbage.
♦ In order to be popular with his peers, he must go along to get along.
♦ Quarrel frequently when he is present. This way he won't be surprised when things
fall apart at home.
♦ Give him as much money as he wants. Never teach him respect for or the value of
money. Make sure he does not have things as tough as you did.
♦ Provide instant gratification for all sensual desires such as food, drink, comfort.
Deprivation can cause frustration.
♦ Side with him against neighbors, teachers, etc., as they are prejudiced against him.
♦ When he gets into real trouble, excuse yourself by saying, "I tried my best but could
never do anything with him."
♦ Don't put your foot down because you believe discipline takes away freedom.
♦ Prefer remote control to parental control in order to teach independence.
♦ What children get, they give to society.

CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE

If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with praise, he learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with hostility, he learns tonight.
If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy.
If a child lives with encouragement, he learns confidence.
If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,
he learns to find love in the world.

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