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Now I Know and this is what I Think…

How you resolve your conflicts depends on what you choose to do and on the
kind of conflict it is. Against each statement, write what you would do: usually,

sometimes, never.

When you have done this, look at your list and circle or underline at least three
things you would do differently, the next time you are in a conflict.

If I have a conflict:

1. walk away __________________________________

2. walk away and break things/
bang doors/throw things __________________________________

3. scream and shout __________________________________

4. hit the other person __________________________________

5. pretend like I have no conflict __________________________________

6. listen to the other person calmly __________________________________
7. get someone else to help __________________________________

8. do not meet or talk to the person __________________________________

9. argue for a long time __________________________________

10. let the other person have
his/her way __________________________________

11. make sure to hurt the other
person’s feelings __________________________________

12. do not let the other person have
his/her way __________________________________

13. call the other person names __________________________________

14. try not to hurt the other
person’s feelings __________________________________

15. agree to share or compromise __________________________________

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