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           harm than good if the perceived   compassion and might give rise    refuge in that skill, they do not try
           “future good” may not actually be so   to what we sometimes call fierce   to address their anger. They let
           for the child or student.         compassion, with no ill-feeling   their wound fester from within and
                                             towards anyone while remaining    that ruins their own mental and
           Ven Min Wei: Can anger be         equally concerned about the       physical health. Although forgetting
           justified or skilful? Traditionally,   situation.                   the situation that led to anger may
           Buddhists feel a sense of shame                                     not be that easy or even necessary,
           when expressing anger, while      Some people can seem very cool,   it is possible to let go of anger and
           from a psychological point of view,   calm, and collected, yet they may   the ill feelings associated with it
           getting in touch with our anger   be seething inside with anger. Is   and cultivate forgiveness for one’s
           is vital. Scientifically, anger as a   it better to release our anger and   own benefit, if not also for the
           healthy response to injustice has   then forget about it, or let it stay   inflictor. Anger as an affliction can
           a different quality. Anger is also   inside us?                     be damaging at times. One may find
           traditionally thought to be close                                   it more reasonable and healthier
           to wisdom. When not projected     Ayasma Aggacitta: Neither is      for all concerned to develop
           outward onto others or inward     better than the other for both are   compassion, compassion for oneself
           towards one self, it is a necessary   bad. Instead one should use any of   in a moment of affliction and for
           energy but we need to be skilful in   the methods prescribed above to   those in one’s environment, sparing
           managing it when it arises.       dispel the anger.                 them the harm that anger often
                                                                               brings.
           So a better question is whether it   Ven Min Wei: Anger is an emotion
           is possible to use one’s own anger   found in all human beings. It is not   Written by Geshe Dadul Namgyal
           skilfully as a method to lead others   a simple on-off switch where if you   with editorial assistance from
           to find release from suffering. The   want it, you just switch it on, but   Martha Leslie Baker.
           energy of anger that we can cultivate   when you don’t like it, you can turn
           should be used for a purpose that   it off. It doesn’t work that way in              Venerable
           is ultimately compassionate and   a human being as far as anger is                   Āyasmā
           not based on hatred for others. For   concerned.                                     Aggacitta is the
           example, anger over injustice or of                                                  founder of the
           an adult abusing a child would not   What we really need to understand               Sāsanārakkha
           be considered as negative if it is   is what causes our anger. For                   Buddhist
           done out of love and compassion.   instance, the causes of our anger   Sanctuary (SBS) in Taiping, Perak,
           So we are angry over the injustice   could be due to our expectations,   a Pāli scholar and a meditation
           or harm done to another person or   jealousy, feeling belittled, self-  teacher.
           an animal, but we have no hatred   desire, and so forth. We cannot
           in our mind for the perpetrator, but   totally eliminate our anger, no               Geshe Dadul
           compassion for the victims.       matter how we mastered our                         Namgyal
                                             practices, because anger is part                   is a Geshe
           Geshe Dadul: Anger, as opposed to   of our human emotion. Anger is a                 Lharampa and
           hatred, may be justified on certain   natural part of our emotional make             senior resident
           occasions. Particularly, if we think   up. It arises when our expectations           teacher at
           of anger, in its least destructive   and wishes are not fulfilled or   Drepung Loseling Monastery in
           mode, as a disturbed sense of     satisfied. Thus, anger itself is not an   Atlanta, Georgia, USA
           being annoyed or wronged based    issue; the problem is how we are
           on reasonable assessment of the   able to deal with it.             Ven. Min Wei is a teacher of
           situation. That may be justified and                                e-learning at the International
           even required to rouse us to act   Geshe Dadul: Yes, for sure there   Buddhist College (IBC) and
           against an injustice or oppression   are some people who can hide their   an independent translator of
           that we witness. Such a sentiment   actual feeling of anger and put up   Buddhism.  EH
           can even go hand in hand with     a facade of cool and calm. Taking
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