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Q1) ADVOCATES                             come from formal classroom           curries and breads were well
                                                  learning, self-paced courses         admired across our families and
             I have a friend who loves            or simply learning on the            friends but she hated cooking!
             animals, she cares for them          job. You could also do all 3         She would try every trick in
             deeply and so she started an         simultaneously.                      the book to avoid going to the
             animal shelter. In front of                                               kitchen. She could taste a dish
             the shelter she has started an       These are EAGER learners             and find faults and suggest quick
             animal salon & spa. The salon        who need to build their skill to     fix improvements in a jiffy but
             provides grooming for pets,          be more & more effective.            only when she wanted.
             sells accessories & animal use
             products. It also allows for day   Q3) DOUBTFUL                     These folks are erratic because
             & night boarding for pets when                                      they are highly skilled but lack
             the family goes on vacation. Her      This is a dangerous zone. This is   the will (desire).
             passion for animals makes her a      when you feel trapped in doing
             very effective product manager       something that you don’t care   If you find yourself in this zone, you
             and pays her bills. She doesn’t      for much. What is worse is that   should either exit or find small rewards
             tire while putting in extra hours    you make mistakes and don’t    for yourself. Find a way to nudge
             or weekends, she doesn’t mind        care enough to practice or learn   yourself into quadrant 1.
             filling in for the team and most     so as, not to repeat them. This
             importantly, she is the worst        is a red flag zone that you must   Many of us could be really good at
             critic of her own product.           quit. If you need help, don’t be   something that we don’t enjoy. You
                                                  afraid to ask for help. Bankers   may be exceptionally qualified, but it
             You are in this space when you       will advise you to cut your    doesn’t mean that you’re passionate
             have the required skill and have     losses and shut shop. Sooner   about it. When your skills don’t match
             a burning desire to excel. Much      the better!                    our desires, you often feel dissatisfied
             like the Passion meets Purpose                                      with your personal and/or professional
             quadrant. It is important to find   Q4) RESISTORS                   lives, lacking meaningful work and
             this zone for yourself either                                       sometimes feeling just plain bored. In
             professionally or personally and      I remember my granny in the   order to be productive & efficient and
             in rare cases both!                  kitchen when (and if) she had to   more importantly happy & satisfied,
                                                  cook a regular meal. She was an   you must use your hours judiciously
             Such people are likely to LOVE       excellent chef I remember. Her   and invest in somethings that add life
             what they DO & DO what                                              to your life!
             they LOVE.
                                                                                 How do you do this?
        Q2) EAGER                           You are in this                      Make sure you map your tasks on

             An ex-colleague discovered the   space when you                     the Skill v/s Will matrix, clearly and
             joy of living close to nature. She                                  effectively. For every task, you do, plot
             uncovered the joy of healthy   have the required                    it on the matrix and evaluate where you
             eating and the many benefits   skill and have a                     are and where you want to be.
             yoga had on her. She found
             a “guru”, made small changes   burning desire to                    n Use the map and consciously and
             in her lifestyle and has joined   excel. Much like                    find things to fill in Quadrant 1.
             classes. She follows what her                                       n Nudge and find ways of moving
             guru suggests willingly and    the Passion meets                      Quadrant 2 and Quadrant 4 tasks
             with a lot of devotion. I see her   Purpose quadrant.                 into Quadrant 1.
             wake up at 4 AM to finish her                                       n Exit Quadrant 3, sooner the better!
             practices the day she needs to   It is important to
             start early for office. She has   find this zone for                If you have tipped one way or the
             gladly given up socialising late in                                 other, you can always identify the
             the night, since she has to wake   yourself either                  problem and start making changes that
             up early in the morning.       professionally                       realign your skills and your desire. It’s
                                                                                 important to note, this is not a one-time
             You are in this space when     or personally                        activity but a continuum that needs to
             you have found your calling.                                        be updated with context and time!
             What you need to do is invest   and in rare
             in skilling yourself. Skilling can   cases both!                    Happy Plotting!

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