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                            to the superstar. I could not stop wondering how this boy could
                            be sucked into such a scheme as this. What could make such
                            an innocent child become part of such an evil scheme?
                                    It was obvious to me the boy felt a sense of duty towards
                            his father. He kept walking back and forth checking on his
                            father and asking if he was alright. When the father would
                            have a nervous outburst the boy would soothe him and calm
                            him down. The situation between the boy and his father re-
                            minded me of when I used to work for a juvenile attorney and
                            handled many cases of child abuse. It was always procedure
                            for the social worker to ask the child(ren), after removing them
                            from the abusive environment, if they wanted to return to live
                            with the parent. In at least 95% of all cases the child said "yes".
                            In most cases, the child would cover up and try to protect the
                            parent, knowing that the parent was wrong or had lied.
                                   I know from firsthand experience how a manipulating par-
                            ent can and will use his/her child(ren), and encourage them
                            to participate or help execute a devious scheme. The parent
                            often entices and lures the child's co-participation by promis-
                            ing them something of great value, especially in cases where
                            there is a divorce or separation. Both parents try to gain the
                            greatest influence over the other by offering the child bigger
                            or better prizes. It almost appears as though they are fighting
                            for the child's affection. But only a parent, or someone of great
                            influence, can make a child override their sense of right and
                            wrong. After all, isn't it the parents who teach the child their
                            moral values?
                                    Another technique I've seen used by parents to gain influ-
                            ence over their children is to place a guilt trip on the child by
                            telling them how much this will help them if the child cooper-
                            ates and goes along with the plan. How they will be able to do
                            this... or that...if the child plays along. Children can be quite
                            imaginative with the proper coaching and instructions.
                                     Only a child could have caused Michael Jackson to let his
                            guard down. It appears that Michael Jackson's only error was
                            that he trusted in the innocence of a child. Since missing out
                            on so much of his own childhood and being trapped in a world



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