Page 67 - Pearls of Perception (eBook)

end, changes are not good or bad, they only reflect the quality that
they surface in you. May the changes in you no longer surface shame
and uneasiness, but only love and well-being.

What Others Think of You

I'm sure you've heard this many times before. Ironically, it seems to
be one of the most popular pieces of advice, that people of all ages
give to each other, yet it remains one of the least understood. And
that is: "What others think of you, is none of your business."

And it really is not. There is nothing you should actually worry about
when it comes to others' opinion about you. Well, of course, I'm not
talking about the opinion of your parents, concerning your education,
growth, or other matters as such. What I am pointing to, is some-
thing much more subtle, something that we easily overlook by con-
sidering it to be "normal" or "ordinary". Most of the time, it is only