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All the above examples happened in real life but make no mistake dear reader.

Nothing will stop love and dating despite the few legal risks your run doing it. As
said dating is the great game after the great game (espionage, according to
Kipling).

I know I sound cynical when I start with divorce proceedings when talking of

marriage which is the supreme state of happiness by design. I sincerely believe
that if you are a decent man you will do the admirable thing and marry your

woman even if you know your chances of divorce court is two out or three. You
know it always happens to someone else and not you.

Interestingly research shows that modern women do like the idea of marriage

even if the long haired liberals disagree and say marriage is old fashioned and
outdated. Strangely enough most of them are married and not living in "sin." I

wonder why they cannot have the conviction of their ideas to follow it in real life.
Don't know and don't give a (you know what) either if you saw Gone with the

Wind.

In fact the longer you wait the less are your chances of being married and the

greater that she will tell you to take a hike. There is nothing wrong with
marriage anyway. It is nice. A lack of money is no excuse for the wise people

(not long haired liberals for they all have money) say if you wait until you have
enough money you will never get married. Thus by all means don't let this book

stops you. Take the plunge and be happy.

Having said that I believe in the sanctity of marriage I also believe to end a
marriage if needs be. Love is a fairly simple concept unless your actions make it

complicated and I hold the theory that you either are in love or not. You really
cannot force yourself to be in love and if you do you are bullsh-ting yourself. It

will never work in the long run for it is based on pretentiousness and not real. It
cannot and will not last if she is not your soul mate. You will never be happy and

worse than that deny her the right to find her soul mate and soul mates are
always hunting for each other. At some stage she will leave you or you her. The

law knows this and thus we will talk about divorce at some length later on. It is
a new beginning for both of you and not the end as some believe. Sometimes

divorce is the only answer.

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