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I  tend  to get involved with clients more than what the conventional lawyers do

               as I can afford to so being independent and being slightly unconventional in my
               approach. As a matter of interest the wedding was very nice and now we are all
               looking  forward to celebrate the arrival of a new grandchild with my client in a

               few months. It means more work for me in the form of updated testaments (also

               called wills) and a Trust fund for the child.

               * Since the book was written we welcomed a healthy boy and I am glad to say

               to  you  both  him  and  his  mom,  the Chosen One, is healthy and in good spirits.
               The baby did make the cross to me or what looked like it when I was formally

               introduced  so  I  gave  his  mom  my  evil  eye  for  teaching  her  son  such  strange
               ways.


               Their lack of distrust made me think though. How many of my readers are aware

               of the circle of life? You know? Where you look up one day and see the woman
               of  your  dreams  gliding  (they  never  walk)  to  you  and  then  after  serious  dating

               you get married and live happily ever after (I hope) or stand in the divorce court
               (I hope not) or later on at the  funeral saying goodbye for a short while only (I

               hope). Along the way you may be rich or poor and have kids or not. This is the
               circle  of  life  and  since  everyone  falls  in  love  at  some  stage  so  no-one  really

               escapes it (I hope). Dating is a big deal in our lives as it should be.

               As an observation I wish to state that dating does not stop at marriage but only

               at death unless you believe in soul mates where it may carry on after death. It is

               a  known  fact  that  a man cannot function alone (nor do two things at the same
               time)  and  as  a  result  the  much  improved  gender  was  created  and  the  two
               became  one  for  the  better  of  mankind.  It  is  the  natural  order  of  things  I say.

               People  fall  in  love  and  whether  they  are  of  the  same  sex  or  opposite  sex  is

               irrelevant to us if not to the law as we will see if boredom don't get you first.

               Someone clever once said  all that is certain in life is death and taxes. Benjamin

               Franklin,  the  First  American  that  was  in  case  your history teacher failed you. I
               wish  to  add  onto this wisdom by saying the circle of life is also certain. Hence,

               through  the  centuries  the  law  involved  itself  in  relationships  and now regulates
               who you can date, marry and what happens in divorce or death. This is what this

               book is about. Your rights and obligations whilst dating for it is a more complex

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