Page 11 - Pure Coaching Magazine - Issue 1
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Self-doubt, envy, resentment... these are all
         feelings. And because all our feelings are
         caused by our thoughts, when we doubt
         ourselves those thoughts are clouded by our
         perception of reality filtered through
         negativity.


         "I can't do this."

         "I'm not good enough/clever enough/pretty
         enough/thin enough."

         "Everyone else has already done this and I'll
                                                                   We can CHOOSE to think thoughts that
         never catch up."
                                                                   EMPOWER us to take ACTION like "if they
                                                                   can do it, so can I and I'm going to start
         These are disempowering thoughts that
                                                                   today!"
         deplete our energy. They don’t serve us at all!
                                                                Comparison doesn't have to be the thief of joy
         So what can we do when we compare
                                                                as long as we use what we learn about
         ourselves with others and come out feeling
                                                                ourselves constructively. That way we can turn
         less than sparkly?
                                                                the passion of envy into the power to
                                                                improve.
            We can remind ourselves that envy is
            always about US and how we feel about
            ourselves and never about the other
            person.

            We can get quiet and listen carefully to our
            thoughts to become AWARE when we're
            comparing ourselves with others.

            We can choose to come from a place of
            ABUNDANCE rather than scarcity,
            reminding ourselves that there is more
            than enough of everything to go around
            and just because someone else is doing
            well it doesn't mean we won't.
                                                                Michelle Reeves is a certified life and mindset

                                                                coach, habit strategist, author and Pure
            We can remind ourselves that the GAP                Coaching Academy graduate. She believes in
                                                                the power of living life ‘on purpose’ and helps
            we've perceived between us and someone
                                                                frustrated women in business to manage their
            else can actually help us to strive for more
                                                                mindset, overcoming their self-limiting beliefs
            in our own lives.
                                                                and rediscovering their purpose and passion

                                                                so that they can play bigger in their lives and
            When we do this we are more likely to
                                                                businesses and intentionally craft their ideal
            think positively and use other's successes
                                                                day into reality.
            as INSPIRATION.
                                                                www.MichelleReevesCoaching.com

                                                                07923 245609


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