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important to them. Our differences will
be spelled out as well. Our imbalances

will be revealed. Over time with
awareness and self-knowledge, we can

take back our projections and realize
where we are actually a lot alike, too.
Now it’s on paper.

We can now love our partner for who

they are, not what we initially projected
onto them. This kind of love is real. Real
love, unlike projection, is a willingness

to see and support another person to be
their own unique, separate self. This kind

of love offers us all the freedom to be
real, not just ideal.

Rebeca Eigen

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