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OpEmism	   




                                                   Keep	   your	   face	   to	   the	   sunshine	   and	   you	   cannot	   see	   the	   shadow.	   	   

                                                                           ~	   Helen	   Keller	   


                                                         OpAmism	   is	   a	   choice	   that	   begins	   with	   deciding	   to	   see	   and	   
                                                    acknowledge	   the	   posiAve	   aspects	   of	   life.	   Because	   it’s	   in	   our	   

                                                    power	   to	   choose	   whether	   to	   be	   opAmisAc	   or	   pessimisAc,	   we	   

                                                    ulAmately	   have	   control	   over	   our	   thoughts.	   	   Perhaps	   moAvaAonal	   	   
                               Deposit	   Photo	   
                                                    business	   writer	   Harvey	   Mackay	   puts	   it	   best,	   “OpAmists	   are	   right.	   
                                                    So	   are	   pessimists.	   It’s	   up	   to	   you	   to	   choose	   which	   you	   will	   be.”	   
          HOPE:	   the	   feeling	   that	   what	   is	   wanted	   can	   be	   
                                                         	   
           had	   or	   that	   events	   will	   turn	   out	   for	   the	   best.	   
                            	                            The	   good	   news	   here	   is	   that	   because	   you	   can	   choose	   at	   any	   
          An	   op8mist	   sees	   an	   opportunity	   in	   every	   
                                                    Ame	   how	   you	   want	   to	   look	   at	   the	   world,	   you	   can	   impact	   your	   
          calamity;	   a	   pessimist	   sees	   a	   calamity	   in	   every	   
                                                    experience	   for	   the	   be/er.	   SaAsfacAon	   and	   graAtude	   are	   the	   
          opportunity.	   ~Sir	   Winston	   Churchill	   	   	   	   	   
                                                    feelings	   we	   typically	   	   assign	   to	   this	   this	   experience	   of	   opAmism	   –	   

                                                    the	   choice	   to	   see	   the	   glass	   as	   half	   full,	   rather	   than	   half	   empty.	   	   
                                                         	   
                                                         	   
                       Here	   are	   a	   few	   words	   that	   describe	   feeling	   saEsfied	   and	   opEmisEc:	   








                  	   	   	   	   	   	   



































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