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Feeling	   In	   Love	   Or	   Lovingly	   Toward	   Another	   




                                                   Your	   task	   is	   not	   to	   seek	   for	   love,	   but	   merely	   to	   seek	   and	   find	   all	   

                                                   the	   barriers	   within	   yourself	   that	   you	   have	   built	   against	   it.	   ~Rumi	   


                                                  	   	   	   	   	   	   Like	   many	   emoAons,	   love	   is	   one	   that	   grows	   as	   it	   is	   expressed.	   
                                                  Love	   can	   be	   many	   things	   –	   words,	   acAons,	   feelings.	   But	   mostly	   it	   is	   

                                                  that	   feeling	   you	   feel	   when	   you	   want	   to	   be	   kind	   to	   someone.	   When	   

                                                  you	   care.	   Although	   it	   is	   a	   feeling	   that	   originates	   in	   you,	   it	   is	   
                                                  directed	   toward,	   and	   inspired	   by,	   another.	   	   
                                    WeHeartIt	   
                                                  	   	   	   	   	   	   “RomanAc	   love	   is	   a	   universal	   experience	   -  	   deeply	   imbedded	   in	   
            What	   a	   grand	   thing,	   to	   be	   loved!	   
                                                  the	   human	   brain,”	   according	   to	   noted	   anthropologist	   and	   love	   
            What	   a	   grander	   thing	   s<ll,	   to	   love!	   
                                                  expert	   Helen	   Fisher.	   The	   feeling	   of	   love	   is	   as	   basic	   as	   any	   other	   
                      ~	   Victor	   Hugo	   
                                                  human	   emoAon.	   Closely	   Aed	   to	   compassion,	   love	   is	   an	   insAnct	   
              	   According	   to	   the	   Dali	   Lama,	   	     that	   allows	   us	   to	   feel	   connecAon,	   understanding	   and	   acceptance.	   

          “Love	   is	   the	   absence	   of	   judgment.”	   	     As	   deeply	   social	   beings	   we	   have	   evolved	   to	   love	   and	   connect	   in	   

              Isn’t	   that	   what	   we	   all	   crave?   order	   to	   survive	   as	   a	   species.	   	   

                                                  	   
                  Here	   are	   a	   few	   words	   that	   illustrate	   feeling	   in	   love	   or	   lovingly	   toward	   another:	   


              	   	   	   	   	   	   








































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