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Anger	   



                                        Anger	   is	   a	   weed;	   hate	   is	   the	   tree.	   	   ~St.	   Augus<ne	   


           	   	   	   	   	   	   A	   normal	   but	   complex	   emoAon	   that	   ranges	   in	   intensity	   from	   irritability	   to	   rage,	   anger	   originates	   deep	   
           in	   the	   primiAve	   part	   of	   our	   brain	   (the	   amygdala)	   to	   fuel	   self-  protecAon.	   Anger	   derives	   from	   fear	   at	   its	   
           most	   intense	   state	   and	   can	   sAmulate	   the	   powerful	   physiological	   “fight-  or-  flight”	   responses	   in	   people.	   
           	   
           	   	   	   	   	   AcAvaAng	   your	   thinking	   when	   you	   feel	   intense	   emoAons	   like	   anger	   will	   help	   you	   maintain	   emoAonal	   
           control.	   	   Anger	   can	   be	   a	   powerful	   catalyst	   for	   change	   if	   channeled	   effecAvely	   and	   communicated	   

           carefully.	   Few	   people	   can	   hear	   anger	   without	   becoming	   defensive	   and	   angry	   themselves,	   so	   if	   you	   want	   
           someone	   to	   hear	   your	   anger	   and	   understand	   your	   pain,	   try	   communicaAng	   your	   experience	   through	   

           anger’s	   composite	   parts	   -  	   hurt	   and	   fear.	   	   	   	   	   



             I	   am	   an	   angry	   person,	   angrier	   than	   
            most	   people	   would	   imagine…	   What	   

           works	   for	   me	   is	   working	   out	   when	   it‘s	   

            useful	   to	   use	   that	   anger.	   ~Alan	   Alda	   









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