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couples.  That eliminated a huge number of people who had either had
          one  child  already,  or  had  successfully  become  pregnant  or  had
          adopted through other means.  This decision pushed us up to the front
          of the waiting line.  They had just ended a parenting class with eight
          couples waiting for their babies.   They wanted to know whether we
          were  still  interested,  as  we  could  be  included  in  their  next  class  of
          eight couples.  We most definitely were!


                 So the door to adoption was opened and becoming a mom was
          finally in sight.  1978 turned out to be a banner year for adoptions and
          their placements were moving quickly.   Four months after our class,
          the agency called Fred at work to inform him that he could possibly
          be a father to a new little baby boy.  This baby came as a surprise to
          them, as the mother hadn’t contacted the agency prior to the birth.  It
          would only be official after she was released from the hospital and
          came into the agency to sign the necessary release papers.  However,
          days passed by and the mother never showed up to sign the papers,
          not even returning their phone calls.


                 We were told that we had a choice to make.  We could choose
          to take the next baby in line, which had already been born, a little girl,
          or we could take the baby boy home, with the chance that the mother
          could  always  change  her  mind  and  decide  to  return  for  him.
          However, if she did come back and sign the release papers, he would
          be ours.  If they didn’t hear from her, though, we would have to wait
          three  months  and  then  go  before  a  judge  who  would  finalize  the
          adoption in our favor.
                 We both agreed that this little boy was meant to be ours.  We
          had already named him – Joseph Sherman Huhn.  Joseph was Fred’s
          dad’s name and Sherman was my dad’s name.   “Jo” in Joseph and
          “Sh” in Sherman spelled Josh.  So, we called him Josh.  We brought
          our little premature 4 pound 16 ounce miracle home and this agnostic
          mom began telling everyone that he was a “gift from God”!


                 We  remained  in  a  three  month  limbo,  waiting  to  see  if  the
          birth mother would come in to sign the papers, or maybe even decide
          that she wanted him back.  My mom declared that there would be no
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