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                                                                          Rabbanit Yemima Mizrachi








                                Our Beloved Mother




             he sweet aroma of fresh-       troublesome, she saw G-d’s salvation.   sad experiences were embraced and
             ly-baked  challah is no longer                                      understood to be coming from G-d.
      Tin the air…                          And it is that unique perspective    Whatever  she  was  going  through,
                                            in life she has bequeathed to us all.   she maintained the same positive and
       The candles which once illumi-       We all possess the inner conviction   optimistic outlook. Because she knew
       nated ever so brightly have been     to recognize the good and see that   all along that G-d was supporting her
       extinguished…                        G-d is carrying us along. For Sarah   and serving as her source of comfort
                                            herself, she was barren for 90 years,
       And the Heavenly cloud, which pro-   abducted by Pharaoh and Avimelech,   and strength.
       vided shelter and protection, has    and died at the shock of hearing about   After I sadly lost my own child a”h, I
       disappeared.                         the near-death experience of her son,   was reminded it was appropriate to

       Sarah’s soul has been recalled to    Yitzchak. Yet what does the Torah tell   recite the verse, “G-d has given and
       heaven.                              us?                                  G-d has taken away; may the name of
                                            “And the years of Sarah were 100     G-d be blessed” (Iyov 1:21). The Ben
       As the Midrash relates, it was at this                                    Ish Chai explains that we often only
       time that Avraham praised Sarah with   years, 20  years and  seven  years,  the   understand how much G-d gives us
       the beautiful words of  Eishet Chayil,   years of Sarah’s life” (Bereishit 23:1).   after G-d takes it away. It is then we
       recognizing  her dedication  as  a   Rashi  explains that  the  redundancy   value what precious gift we had and
       woman of valor to G-d and her family.  of the word “years” after each period   how much we ought to have appreci-
                                            of life teaches that these years shared
       However, it seems odd. Why would     similar qualities. When Sarah was 100   ated it.
       Avraham only now extol Sarah’s       years old, she was as sinless as she was   And so I named my next son Natan,
       unique qualities? Why only after she   at age 20, comparable to an individ-  meaning “give.” I learned to under-
       passed away did he take special note   ual under 20 years of age who is not   stand that everything we have in life
       of the blessings in her dough, candles   subject to Heavenly retribution. And   is a beautiful gift from G-d. Whether
       and clouds?                          when she was 20, she was as charming   times are good or challenging, G-d is
                                            and beautiful as a seven-year-old.   there to lend us support.
       A person can only appreciate the full
       scope of his wife’s or mother’s deeds   We find a further comparison      That is the eternal lesson Sarah has
       after  her  lifetime.  Her  true  greatness   between the numbers 100 and 20,   left us. Appreciate every year of life
       can be seen from the legacy she leaves   adding  further meaning and dimen-  and every step along the way. And
       behind.                              sion to the balance of Sarah’s life. The   when we do so, we will surely be
                                            100th perek of Tehillim describes the
       Sarah never completely left her tent.   joy one is to experience when serving   following  in  the  ways  of  our  dear
       After her passing, when Yitzchak     G-d. “Serve G-d with gladness, come   mother, for whom every day and
       brought his new wife, Rivka, into    before Him with joyous song…” The    every moment of life was full of G-d’s
       Sarah’s  tent,  the  illuminating  can-  20th perek depicts the opposite set   goodness.
       dles, fresh  challah and Divine cloud   of circumstances, a life of challenge
       returned. While Rivka would now      and difficulty: “May G-d answer you
       step into the role of the primary    on the day of distress… may He send
       Matriarch of Klal Yisrael, the life and   help and support you…”
       lessons Sarah left behind would for-
       ever continue to inspire and warm the   As  Chazal state, the final repetitive
       hearts of her beloved children.      phrase of the verse – “the years of
                                            Sarah’s life” – teaches that all the days
       Even amidst the darkness, Sarah saw   of Sarah’s life were equally good in her   Rabbanit Yemima Mizrachi is a popular
       light. Even when life was painful and   eyes. For Sarah, both the joyful and   Israeli teacher, speaker and writer.




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