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Self-Harm  v  Suicide:  Self  Harm  is  not  the  same  as  a
            Suicide attempt. Lots of people self-harm, never having
            any intention of killing themselves. Having read through
            the  list of  ‘Whys’ above,  you’ll  have seen that none of
            them  relate  to  someone  trying  to  kill  themselves.  If
            someone  cuts  their  arms  or  wrists  –  which  is  a
            particularly  common  form  of  self-harm,  especially
            among young girls and women, it does not necessarily in-
            dicate they were attempting suicide.
           STRANGE  AND  UNUSUAL:  It’s  not  that  strange  &
            unusual. A study in Oxford found 700 in 100,000 females
            reported self-harming. In A survey of 13 to 15 year olds
            5%  of  the  boys  and  8%  of  the  girls  said  they  had
            self-harmed, but within the same survey, far less parents
            reported  that  their  children  had  self-harmed.  It’s  worth
            bearing in mind that not all people surveyed will admit
            self-harming even if they do. Often it is estimated that
            the  true  figures  are  somewhat  higher  than  what  the
            surveys reveal and males and females tend to be different
            in what type of information they disclose.
           FAME AND FORTUNE: People who self-harm are not
            necessarily  from  financially  or  educationally  deprived
            backgrounds. All sorts of people self-harm including well
            educated, high achieving, career driven people. So, just to
            emphasise this point and leave a heavy topic on a lighter
            note,  here  are  a  few  famous  people  who  have  been
            reported as being ‘Self Harmers’…
           Jonny  Depp  (Actor):  Van  Gough  (Artist):  Angelina
            Jolie  (Actress):  Diana  (Princess  of  Wales):  Vivian
            Leigh  (Actress):  Russell  Brand  (Comedian,  Writer  and
            Actor):  Kellie  Holmes  (Athlete):  and  there  are  many
            others…  (You  can  find  out  much  more  about  famous
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