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Kong. He said the assignment needed to be filled  soon and asked me to spend time
               over the weekend discussing it with Sue and that we would go over the details mid-
               week.

               Sue and I spent the entire weekend looking at maps, calling family, and playing the
               “what if” game. We spent time soul-searching; we were concerned about school,
               church, the distance from our family,  expenses, and the timeframe.  Despite our

               concerns, our answer was, “YES! Hong Kong, here we come!”

               First, Sue and I both had a one-on-one interview  with an outside psychologist, and
               we both had a written interview  followed by a full  medical examination.   Sue was
               interviewed later again because Dow Corning wanted to be sure she understood the
               demands of the job and my heavy travel schedule. Since I was the first American

               with Dow Corning to be assigned to the Asian culture, going as a “trailblazer”  was
               of concern to me and to my family  and to the company. Would we like the food?
               Could we adapt to the crowded environment?   Could we understand and relate to
               the people?  What about the languages – Mandarin, Cantonese, Japanese? One of
               my favorite sayings has always been, “You can design success and you can design

               failure.” Dow Corning could not afford to make a major mistake; neither could we.
               Prior experiences of relocating executives and their families  to Europe were not
               entirely  successful. The Asian business plan required quick penetration to meet the
               corporate objectives; this meant “we” had to acclimate immediately.

               It was 1974. Before accepting this assignment from our home in Cherry Hill,  New
               Jersey, Mr. Bill  Lowrey and his wife, Jan, took us to Tokyo and Hong Kong for a

               ten day get-acquainted and acceptance tour. It was a shock being introduced to
               very small apartments (2,000 square feet), very expensive groceries, outrageously
               priced gasoline and very crowded streets. Not being able to communicate in the
               languages certainly  helped me to understand how it feels to be a minority;  I could
               surely relate. Sue’s parents took care of Anne and Greg in our absence.

               We received the royal treatment with the best hotels, food, wine and first-class

               flights serving prime rib and providing entertainment.  There were to be some perks
               for the family  and some financial  assistance since I was only making  about
               $25,000 plus bonuses. The family  would get leave to go home once a year, and we
               would have a full-time, live-in  maid. The kids would go to an international
               American school. I would receive four to six week annual vacations, and all our



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