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➦  My child should always be the best student in his/her class - What would
                  happen if he/she does not top the class?

              ➦  I am not good enough - According to whom?
              ➦  Our neighbor’s daughter is better than you - Better how?

              ➦  You must be 100% good at solving mathematics - What would happen
                  if she scores 90% instead of 100%?

           3.  Look for examples - Find enough examples to overcome beliefs, such as “where
              or when has the limiting belief has not been true either for me/my child or
              other people?”
           4.  Consider the consequences - One of ways is understanding the consequence
              of holding on to the beliefs. Here are few consequence questions:

              ➦  What will the consequences be if I’m unable to make this change or help
                  my child eliminate this limiting belief?

              ➦  How will not changing the belief affect my life/my child’s life?
              ➦  What are the short-term and long-term consequences of not changing?
                  Has the belief helped me the past?

              ➦  What would happen to my child if I hold on to the belief?

           5.  Affirmations - An affirmation is a positive statement specifically targeted at
              re-programming an existing limiting belief. Remember, that any thought we
              repeat often enough will in time be passed down to our unconscious mind to
              create a belief. If the new, positive statement is repeated enough times, it will
              in time be strong enough to over-ride the existing negative one. Some of the
              examples of affirmations are:

              ➦  Parents:
                  i.   I believe that anything
                      is possible if you set my
                      mind to it.

                  ii.   You can do this… I
                      believe in you…

                  iii.   You are strong, confi-
                      dent and capable…
                  iv.  You can do it.







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