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2. To attract the right man for

marriage, you must tell yourself

the right things.

What do you believe about yourself?

What are you telling yourself?

You may be programming yourself for failure with negative thoughts.

For example, if you’ve told yourself that “all good men are taken,” then

you’ve labeled the people coming to you as ‘left-overs’ even before they

make their appearance!

Your pre-determined beliefs, which you may not even be conscious of, can

be destructive.

Seven percent of communication is what you say, and the other 93 percent

is non-verbal. That 93 percent screams your “personal truth,” what you

really believe about yourself when nobody is looking. If you’re carrying

baggage — insecurities, fear, desperation — people can tell.

So change the things you tell yourself about

yourself, so that you can begin to attract the right

man for marriage.

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